@absoluteunit

For 25 years I was fat loser virgin, discovered TRP, and now 5 years later I am a jacked virgin with money. Now for the first time of my life women actually put themselves in my proximity, give me all the signals imaginable, brush their tits on me when moving past me, touch my arms all the time, you know the deal. Problem is that I have self isolated during this time and lost most of my social circles and I made the classic mistake of not doing approaches when I was starting out. This is also partly why I isolated myself because I felt shame for being the virgin. Now I only look like I know what I am doing, but the fat loser is still inside me and at this age women expect you to have experience, carry the whole conversation and make all the right moves. I can see them get disappointed when I don't make a move but my social skills are so trash. I can start a conversation but holding it and escalating is where I get lost in my head. Reading another manual won't do shit, I know I have to get out there and fake it until I make it but any advice/tough love you can give me would be appreciated.

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

For 25 years I was fat loser virgin, discovered TRP, and now 5 years later I am a jacked virgin with money. Now for the first time of my life women actually put themselves in my proximity, give me all the signals imaginable, brush their tits on me when moving past me, touch my arms all the time, you know the deal. Problem is that I have self isolated during this time and lost most of my social circles and I made the classic mistake of not doing approaches when I was starting out. This is also partly why I isolated myself because I felt shame for being the virgin. Now I only look like I know what I am doing, but the fat loser is still inside me and at this age women expect you to have experience, carry the whole conversation and make all the right moves. I can see them get disappointed when I don't make a move but my social skills are so trash. I can start a conversation but holding it and escalating is where I get lost in my head. Reading another manual won't do shit, I know I have to get out there and fake it until I make it but any advice/tough love you can give me would be appreciated.