@Lionsmane8 that's so much cringe
You failed the first shit test. You just say "yeah, all good" and then try again 10 mins later after seducing her more. Of she still says the same BS, time to leave gracefully. Try her again one more time and if she still pulls the same BS, soft next. The things you said to there the second time were cringy as fuck. You don't apply logic to these situations. You gave an ultimatum and failed miserably.
How do you deal with a micromanaging boss?
So this month we got a new boss (Cyber-sec department) and he is really bad at both the technical and managerial skills (he got his positions due his strong contacts and relationships). He does not know how to manage people or how to manage IT solutions unfortunately. Anyhow, his style in management is micromanagement and this is really bugging us out, we cannot find a way to work this out professionally.
Whenever something pops in his head he wants that to be DONE NOW, even if you are working on a critical task, he will want you to just drop what you have and work on what he asked you; This has caused us to have somethings backfire at me due to his style of (drop what's in your hand and do what I want NOW). Then he will put the blame on me not being able to work concurrently!
Gentlemen, this is my first time working with such management style, need your input and guidance on this I want to excel at my position but this manager might effect this
@drake offers solid counsel here as it's not your company, but someone else's. However, I think the writing is being put on the wall. Read this book, update your resume, and consider applying to other companies, pursuing contracting, or building your own company.
Three months ago you complained about a newly hired female coworker. Now you're complaining about a recently hired moron of a manager. Given that you've since revealed you're in cyber security, I'm disinclined to see these situations as isolated incidents, but the beginning of a trend. You might want to plan a quiet professional exit before things escalate.Read More
Is she a real 9 or just in your eyes? You might have fucked up a bit because very hot women need to go on (fun) dates first. They will almost never come directly to your place unless you are a celebrity.
Also she might not be sure she wants to fuck you (very normal) at this stage. You have put her in a strange position right now. If she comes, she thinks you will just use her because she's a "slut". If she wants to say no, she might not know how to do it without looking like rejecting you.
When I fucked up similarly in the past, they would say "no, thats not ok for me". I would just change the place then and we would meet. Then proceed as normal. Do not take it as a rejection if she says no. Just tell her to meet you at a cool bar or a fun activity
@Fawking_Gay it's not legal anywhere in Europe for example. How do you know where this guy lives?
If you show a recording to another person in the company (hr included), you will be escorted outside by Security. Someone recording is a much bigger liability for the company versus a bad manager. If they know you recorded a manager, they can think you can record them too, or even sensitive company data. You are a risk.
Do not fucking record unless you think you can use that as an evidence in a criminal case.