Need advice;
Long story short. Ex girlfriend came crawling back and told me she loved me etc etc and how much she missed me. 2 months after breakup and NC.
She texts me two weeks ago, (when I’m going on a trip with my bud’s) telling me how much she loves me and I’m the best person she ever met in her entire life. We text back and forth until this Thursday. This Thursday, her and her friends go on a party trip for four days. She ignores me this entire time. She even ignores my text of “I’m home for one day next Tuesday, want to eat dinner at xxxxxx?” While ignoring me, she posts pictures on Instagram and going hardcore partying until 5 am. For three days. I get absolutely shattered.
I lose frame, and after four days I texted her telling her that she is an awful girlfriend for going on a party trip for four days and ignoring me. 30 seconds(!) later, she spam calls me and says that she have been crying and fighting with her friends the whole time(?) (lie, they have been out partying till 05am) I answer this with saying that I’ll never respect anything close to this behaviour in my life. She then proceeds to text me that her “picture” of me is shattered and that I’ve been talking to other girls, and that I should not play some sort of angel. (She broke up with me and I started spinning plates and one plate actually texted my now ex gf)
Fellow Red Pillers, what could I’ve done better? She is of course blocked everywhere after those 3 days of her possibly hoeing around and taking me for granted.
Read MoreEx girlfriend broke up with me two months ago. Was beta as fuck in the end. When she broke up, I told her simply OK. Heard from her every other week and met up with her two days ago and fucked her. She told me she loved me and wants me back. I’ve improved everyday since then. She is partying every weekend now and im disgusted and doesn’t want her back. However, I was severely hurt when she broke up, (the day after my birthday trip).
She messages me yesterday on how she doesn’t feel that I like her anymore and that she is stressed about it, because of the fact that I fucked her while we both l were drunk. I answered OK. She sent multiple texts on how I’m cold towards her. Remember, she broke up because of the fact we met each other “too early”. (AWALT)
Answered back that I’m on vacation and doesn’t want to be disturbed, and that I liked the night we had. She said sorry and that she misses me like crazy. Didn’t answer that.
Am I handling this correct?
This girl is a 10 in appearance. Model and a super hot body, literally. Every guy in town wants her and she is a semi attention-whore on Instagram. I’m the guy that have been fucking her everyday for the last year. However she broke up with me two months ago. She regrets it now and I want to punish her by using her for easy sex and make her regret this decision for the rest of her life. She severely hurted me and I can’t let go that she is partying every weekend and doing cocaine afterwards. Can’t even imagine how many dicks she got inside her these two months. What do I do to proceed and feel like a fucking god?
You're still "beta as f_ck," as you put it, but most guys are. When your coke using supermodel, party girl GF ended the relationship, you should've put her number on block, ceased all contact, and moved on with your life. You two had your chance and she blew it. Further, she's doing you a favor by ending your relationship with a coke user as that rarely ends well. The last thing you need in your life are the complications brought by a substance abuser. However, if you really want to hurt her, cease all further contact, turn down her offers of sex, and whenever she catches you on the street ask her if she's gotten herself into rehab for her coke habit.
Beyond that, consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, also known as the late Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's mirrored on several sites and a podcast.
While his media is a bit pricey, it's well worth the investment as it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. If you've already found you'd like to read his book, but find money is an issue for you, you should be able to find copies through torrent sites, but I won't say where you should start on that endeavor. Given his passing, it's entirely possible that his site will soon have a sale and afterwards his media will likely be more expensive.
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This girl is a 10 in appearance. Model and a super hot body, literally. Every guy in town wants her and she is a semi attention-whore on Instagram. I’m the guy that have been fucking her everyday for the last year. However she broke up with me two months ago. She regrets it now and I want to punish her by using her for easy sex and make her regret this decision for the rest of her life. She severely hurted me and I can’t let go that she is partying every weekend and doing cocaine afterwards. Can’t even imagine how many dicks she got inside her these two months. What do I do to proceed and feel like a fucking god?
Ex girlfriend broke up with me two months ago. Was beta as fuck in the end. When she broke up, I told her simply OK. Heard from her every other week and met up with her two days ago and fucked her. She told me she loved me and wants me back. I’ve improved everyday since then. She is partying every weekend now and im disgusted and doesn’t want her back. However, I was severely hurt when she broke up, (the day after my birthday trip).
She messages me yesterday on how she doesn’t feel that I like her anymore and that she is stressed about it, because of the fact that I fucked her while we both l were drunk. I answered OK. She sent multiple texts on how I’m cold towards her. Remember, she broke up because of the fact we met each other “too early”. (AWALT)
Answered back that I’m on vacation and doesn’t want to be disturbed, and that I liked the night we had. She said sorry and that she misses me like crazy. Didn’t answer that.
Am I handling this correct?
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