By modern standards, Lola is definitely a woman.
Unfortunately you just have to let them do what they're gonna do. You can't save them all
Everyone has heard of Captain save a hoe but honestly there are way too many captain save a bro situations that you shouldn't be getting yourself into
I would hate to see a friend off himself over a bitch but they will hate you for trying to save them.
I'm about close to losing this friend trying to help him. He asked me to keep certain women his ex was jealous of away from him and everything
Just to be mad at me for telling him the truth. In general avoid your compromised down bad friends. They will eventually disappoint you
Another valuable reason to limit red knighting your down bad blue pill friends, apart from them hating you for it, instead of being able to soberly see that you are actually the best help they have ever received, it's rather quite simple:
If it came down to it, they would absolutely throw you under the bus for mediocre pussy abusing them.
I have no doubt in my mind, after everything this friend experienced, dumped and all, that he would sacrifice me on the alter for mediocre snatch without a second thought
Don't red Knight your down bad friends. They are compromised as is. They would let a disrespectful bitch run your fate through their friendship than listen to any actual lifesaving advice
Update 2:
We agreed to never exchange advice again
You cannot help down bad men. He got upset I spoke negatively of his ex, who he is determined to wait for as she samples cacks while he stays celibate for a relationship that is never coming back
You CANNOT help these men. That is the only reason I'm sharing this story. If you guys think you can red Knight your terminally down bad friends you are wrong
I knew this wouldn't work. I felt obligated to help him because he's been borderline suicidal about it. But beyond that I knew the end result would be agreeing not to talk about it
They will only hate you for being honest and they will seek bad advice because it feels good
Update on not red knighting your blue pill friends:
He's still too far gone. His ex girl is probably meeting and fucking other men as we speak because she wasn't fucking him for a few months and was going places without telling him where and he wasn't asking
She definitely isn't asexual and he is in denial that she will come back because her breakup spiel was "it's not you it's me and I need to work on myself first". Bro falls for literal womanese
I reached out to see if he's okay and he's texting female friends he knows apologizing for random shit and self destructing. I told him to stop and it and he just won't listen
Some men are just terminally down bad. You quite literally can't help them and it has deeply compromised them
@Typo-MAGAshiv That is great. Moderation in a woman is a great virtue. I know it depends on the man but I think women don't realise that it can be very attractive, since it suggests less shallowness.
@SwarmShawarma Fixing removes the dopamine hit of shopping or of being given a new thing (and women do love that don't they).
In my lady's case I can't think of anything big or clever I have fixed that has disappointed but a list of minor disapointments are;
She was disappointed when the oven door could be fixed by tapping another hole to screw another catch in and buying a replacement seal. She has really hoped for a new oven but oven heats food, so what is the problem?
Soldering some wires in her lap top meant she didn't get a new one.
She would like a new gate but I keep repairing the existing one (which in fairness does look a little old).
She would have liked new taps but the old ones only needed the seats grinding and new washers.
She assumes a new vacuum will clean better but really she just has to get all the crap clogging the existing one out and clean the filter.
She has had it in for my old Oak kitchen table since she arrived. It was my parents and it was antique when they had it. It is a rustic oak table. Nothing fancy, plenty of minor knocks. It is not going to be thrown out. Attempting to compromise I sanded it down and treated it with silvered oil to kill bacteria. It is tolerated (just).
Many complaints have been levelled at my hand made mahogany bed and I have variously assaulted it to stop the most minor squeaks. Its not going. She has in the past admitted the truth that she really does not like it because its a wooden bed. She associates a wooden bed with being a hick. She wants a smart urban bed. Should have got a smart urban gent then.
A new conservatory would be a lot better in her mind than fixing the lead flashing and the brackets that hold the panels in.
If the television were bigger I think there would be no complaints about my fixing the aerial from time to time but she insists the TV is broken and we need a new bigger one to fix reception. (This amuses me more than perhaps it should).
She wanted a new front door like some other houses in the street have when the lock broke but I just changed the lock (not that that really even qualifies as a repair).
One that I did win was that she was constantly telling me to throw out an 18th century mahogany table that was water stained. I refused and simply sanded it many times with decreasing grit sizes and applied finishing oil. It is as smooth as french polish. She now loves it. In fact she likes to tell people that she sanded it because she tried to help a few times.
Read More@First-light for a woman resource is resource
I would run few theoretical scenarios but it will too much writing
If she gets new replacement for a broken stuff what is the effect?
If she sees you fixing something, and won't get new thing, what is the effect?
Is woman's similarityntoba child playing role?
Being sociable in short term relationships supplies you with new opportunities.
In long term relationships it is a constant reminder no only to yourself but your girlfriend as well, that you have options.
In LTRs that can actually cause jealousy issues and I have had to consciously dial back the level of sexuality in my passive flirting. I consider myself more of casual flirt now a days.
That's something I've discussed here before, passive dread works wonders. Active dread causes headaches. Being a socialable person is passive dread.
I we broke up today, my girlfriend knows I'd at the very least have the opportunity to sleep with someone attractive within a week. I never had to tell her that, she knows instinctively from watching me interact with strangers.
1) what does this app do that can't be accomplished right here at the existing platform?
2) the responses in your demo aren't very RP. Fuck, the very first reading in the very first Rational Male book is There Is No "One".
