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@Lionsmane8 I thought about it. It’s short term. I’m so used to not pulling anyone that I immediately fell back to beta mode and was thinking “Damn she let me in, I gotta find a way to keep her”. I’m better than that. There’s always another woman and an easier woman. I don’t need to chase anyone. I’m going to ghost until Friday and then hit her up for drinks.
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Time for you to practice your "frame control" as @Vermillion-Rx implies.
If you struggle with sticking with boundaties I suggest an autistic method to help you with that.
Draw a table with one line and 4 columns.
The line will have her name.
The columns are: 0, short-term, medium-term, long-term.
When your head cools down, sit on a desk and rationally assess the girl's potential.
Act in accordance with the category you've put her in.
This mental assessment tool will help you discipline yourself. (I.e don't give medium-term trrament to short-term girls).
Good luck.
Namely setting boundaries, frame, not continuing to hang out with her she does undesirable things and doesn't put out.
OP is acting like has no agency/can't hold frame
You can avoid that situation without being obstinate
@Vermillion-Rx I’m going to get the “we should move slow” treatment when I’m trying to get the “ONS fuck like rabbits and leave” treatment if I do anything besides ghost until she recontacts me.
I’m open to opinions but I don’t EVER want to be in that situation again.
@Vermillion-Rx I thought it through. I’m just going to ghost and move to the follow-up chick.
Wut
This is full of so many contradictory misconceptions it's a lot to break down because so much of this analysis is wrong and loaded with cognitive fallacies as well as lack of RP understanding