@imtranscending

Shit like this is increasingly more common reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/vlrc4w/update_my_33m_saw_videos_of_my_fianc%c3%a9_29f/ TLDR is that this dude catches his wife cheating on her bachelorette night at an airbnb with her friends by taking a look at a laptop she left home and was logged into a facebook group chat. The girls were uploading videos to this group chat of the night unfolding. There were videos of 10 dudes showing up at the house, and the fiancé kissing two of them. Then in another video she enters a bedroom with 2 of them. The ladies were obviously drunk, but that doesn't excuse the behavior. Interestingly enough the commenters support OP's decision to break off the wedding in the end.

“The opportunity of defeating the enemy is provided by the enemy himself.” — Sun Tzu, "The Art of War"

...or herself, as the case may be.

@destraht

I somehow felt that it was wrong to date a chick two grades younger, even though I was a year young for my grade. So basically I shut down some of the hottest chicks of those grades even though they were only about a year younger than me.

The brainwashing is incredibly real.

California has one of the highest age of consent in the world and not just America. Actually only a small handful of states require above 16. But if you have lived in any of those states, the number 18 is somehow sacrosanct. People really believe there is something magical about that number, like somehow the great truth has been captured by the all mighty democratic process. The world literally changes for that person once they turn 18. Nobody ever bothers to think hey maybe this law is bullshit. Whenever you have democracy as your god then equality down to the exact year is the most important thing ever.

@woodsmoke If I could do high school over again I wouldn't ask for a single woman's number who wasn't already giving me the hard fuck me eyes. I would have done well to do nothing, and then to hit super hard on the spot once one went above and beyond in showing me interest. California teenage chicks could be very obvious about showing interest.

I just hate how ageist that I was, and it really fucked me up. I somehow felt that it was wrong to date a chick two grades younger, even though I was a year young for my grade. So basically I shut down some of the hottest chicks of those grades even though they were only about a year younger than me. That was incredibly retarded, and a large reason why I almost wasn't getting laid during those years even with some solid interest. I'm sure that I went home and jerked off to these chicks that I wouldn't allow myself to go after.

Furthermore, there were some rather old guys in high school who were the pimps, and they were like 1.5 years too old for their grade. One of them stayed back for sports in the 8th grade. Then there are the massive numbers of Latinos who were two years older than stated. They were macking it. I could have been doing the same thing.

Oh well.