@Hamzter

by the viking guy I mean what chance have I got in the world with chiseled jaw blue eyed models who have chicks dming them like crazy.

Don't worry about what other men have. Just focus on yourself. Comparison is the thief of joy.

it's like I'm collecting scraps.

Sure, if that's how you choose to look at it.

You could also look at it as "this woman wants to fuck. I'll have some fun while it lasts."

she'll always be drooling over for that alpha cock

1) become more attractive. Become more fuckable. They'll drool over you.

2) always keep in the back of your head that she's never yours, it's only your turn. So just enjoy your turn while it lasts. If you're not married to her, just get rid of her the second you don't want her anymore. She fancies some other dude? Let her go. She's replaceable.

You also mentioned the 80/20 thing earlier. It's usually not quite that cut and dried in the real world. You don't have to be top 20% of men in the world, just in your locality.

And here's the kicker: you don't have to be perfect. You don't have to actually be top 20%. A lot of attraction is based on the individual women, their moods, where they are in their monthly cycles (when they're ovulating, they are horny), etc.

Once you break through, you'll be surprised how easy it really is.

First thing: don't be fat or skinny-fat. Most men these days are obese, and of the ones who aren't, most of them are skinny-fat soyboy wimps. You don't have to be huge or ripped; just don't be soft.

This alone already puts you at least in the top 40-50% percent of men. The rest is grooming, learning to be charming and a decent conversationalist, etc.

It's work, but it's not that difficult and it's worth it.

@Hamzter

The moment I open my phone there's this blue eyed viking girls drooling in his dms.

Whose DMs? What are you even talking about?

I can't help it.

Yes you can. You are in control of your thoughts and actions.

It's frustrating to know that the hot blonde chick I want

That's part of your problem. You're only into one particular chick instead of being open to others.

The world is full of women.

Don't chase ones you like; pick from among the ones who like you.

If none like you yet, get to work.

would only be into me either if I'm a "jester" "old money"

That's bullshit. You don't have to be rich. I got laid all the time when I was poor and broke. You just have to be fun and charming. If you look at that as being a "jester", then I'm not sure what to tell you except that your mentality sucks and you need to stop being a bitch.

I hate them I hate every single one of emm. I don't know how I'd ever change that.

Change how you look at things. Hating something for its nature is just stupid. It's like hating orcas for eating seals. Don't seethe in hatred; look for how you can benefit.