been really struggling and truthfully don't know why. i'm 6'4", jacked, asian male with a great job/salary. i'm pretty extroverted and get along well with people. for some reason lately, i've been getting ghosted or unable to close. i feel like dates go well and i'm told constantly that i'm attractive, but can't break this 4 month dry spell. i have no clear answers to why i'm getting ghosted or unable to close, given on paper, i'm what most women want and i get a good amount of attention irl.

can someone point me to resources on closing, gaming women etc? i feel like i need to re-educate myself.

Probably dated a bunch of 5'10"-5'11" guys claiming to be 6'1"-6'2", so now she's going higher. Being taller than about 6'3" rapidly starts to become almost a handicap. Nothing is designed for taller people, whether that's doors, ceilings, cars, or airplane seats. Just like fat people need to buy two airplane seats, overly tall people need to buy business class or at least exit rows to fit. While basketball players might buy ferraris to keep in their garage, they usually drive big SUVs because they are the only cars with a large enough length that their legs will fit (they usually need to have them customized with the rear seat taken out and the front seat sat way back).

I'm not saying we should pity such tall guys. Just saying that dating them is not all roses and rainbows when you have to think about these things on a daily basis when making plans. It's like girls with overly large breasts: they get back pain, they can't do heavy exercise without having them slosh all over, their bras cut into their shoulders, and their man has to basically massage their back and shoulders every day.