vermillion is right. your inner game is off so you're coming off as incongruent or outcome dependent. you need to do some inner work. I would recommend putting down all of the red pill literature, look into cognitive behavioral therapy tools you can use on yourself, fix your automatic thoughts and doubt labels, adjust your goals of interactions. More time in social interactions of all types will also help with social calibration/congruence. You need to separate your emotional state from your dating success if it is tied to it. The MAIN principle you need to internalize is that the reward is the effort, not the outcome. After very interaction focus on what you learned and what went well, not what you accomplished, building your confidence from evidence not affirmations. Ideally you should be at a place where you would be happy if you never touched a pussy in your life ever again (but obviously you will be with many more women in your life) and you game because you want to. Game is a long uphill battle and you can't have certain expectations from it. Good luck brother