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Antelope
a few seconds ago The Public Square
@AFTSOV I’m reminded of the time an LTR was saying bye to a university friend, who was going on a trip. She stepped closer and touched his arm, I forget what was said but he looked at me and we shared a look. The look expressed the line she had crossed in regards to her level of respect for me, in my eyes. I turned up the dread and handled the situation, but a few years later there was a social occasion in which he was going to be there. I hadn’t thought anything of it, but she brought it up. She said that her entire group of friends had discussed it, and she was checking that I wasn’t uncomfortable seeing him. I had to laugh because it was entirely obvious a line had been crossed by the fact everyone had talked about it, and the disrespect had continued unbeknownst to me.
AWALT, in that you can take them out or you can keep them locked up but you’re just caging something that can fit through the bars. Deal with it when it arises accordingly in line with your own standards, otherwise you’ll be encouraging loose behaviour. That’s because like a child they’ll always test your boundaries. Where you draw the line in the sand is entirely subjective. Whether the woman adheres to your standards is again, entirely subjective. If a plate adheres to those standards they become an LTR, no?
Read MoreTypo-MAGAshiv @Butthead
11 minutes ago The Public Square
@AFTSOV A) do you even know he's an ex?
B) what exactly are your expectations here? That she never says a word to another man ever again? That's incredibly unrealistic.
C) disrespectful would be if she ran to him and jumped into his arms. A basic "hey, how've you been?" is just manners.
I believed that according to the red pill, that if a woman goes to say hi / hug another man, then she is not yours, it's just your turn, she's a hoe whore, and she doesn't respect you as a man
Maybe according to a few idiots who take these things to ridiculous extremes and can't function in the real world.
The only part of that paragraph that's true is "she is not yours, it's just your turn". Everything else is insanity.
Does she chat with them every day? Are they texting buddies? Do they stay in touch via Facebook or other social media? Do they stay in touch at all?
If so, then THAT is disrespectful.
Running into each other in public and saying "hey, how's it going?" is just being civil and having manners.
Read MoreTypo-MAGAshiv @Butthead
16 minutes ago The Public Square
@AFTSOV it's really not, as long as it's only "hi" or along those lines.
AFTSOV The Righteous One
37 minutes ago The Public Square
@Typo-MAGAshiv Why would your girl even bother to say hi to an ex in the first place? That's disrespectful.
AFTSOV The Righteous One
38 minutes ago The Public Square
Basic manners and civility are disrespectful?
This is exactly why I asked the question. What I'm about to say is completely without irony. It's literally my thought process, so, have some mercy.
I believed that according to the red pill, that if a woman goes to say hi / hug another man, then she is not yours, it's just your turn, she's a hoe whore, and she doesn't respect you as a man.
That's why I wondered, was what happened just basic civilized manners, or was it red pill disrespect?
That's what I want to know, from guys who came around before the internet (no offense, genuine inquiry) because with the internet, I am half-way convinced to keep the bitch locked up in my house to prevent situations like this from occuring.
carnold03
54 minutes ago The Public Square
Mostly face to face.
That's good. You get to develop some of your communication skills while having the ability to observe their body language.
carnold03
55 minutes ago The Public Square
We both joined the company at the same time, we are both new there I am not sure of her past career
If you already can tell she's difficult to work with then supervisors and managers are likely aware. Have you taken your concerns up with them yet?
LampinWhileTappin
about an hour ago The Public Square
@carnold03 We both joined the company at the same time, we are both new there I am not sure of her past career
carnold03
about an hour ago The Public Square
It’s a corporate store and yeah I talk with customers all day.
Face to face, over the phone, email, or some variation of the three?
cc: @TheRedPike