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Having no money and telling that money doesn't give happiness is like being in prison and saying that being out of jail is not happiness.
Having no money is the root of all problems. You agree to do shit you don't want to. You have to eat things that fucking kill you slowly. EVERYTHING IS AFFECTED. Your fucking dick works much worse when you have ANY stress. You can't afford to go to restaurant once a month. Every thing that you buy even it's 1€ eggs vs organic 1,50 you can't afford it. It's a nightmare.
Why do you think I was shy and shit with women. I had zero money. I was living with two other guys in the room. The moment I even saw a women all it reminded me was I don't even have place to talk, not to mention fuck. It stopped me from even going to girls' places when they simply asked me for coffee. Because then she would ask where I live and she would wanna see or it would be just natural to invite her.
And it is mostly just your choices- because even if you make minimal salary you can still not buy dumb shit and you can save few K and feel alright. But because of insecurity you will spend the money to look richer than you are.
And the best part- you will feel same anxiety because when you look that you have money but you don't have it creates even worse fear of exposing it. It is much better to live simple life and have time and some money to do silly shit than to try to look rich and have no time and money.
People are slaves to their paychecks because of their own choices. You need it because you got last one and spent it all. Imagine you get your salary and you have 10 times more on the account. You have so much less stress. You can think open-mindedly what you want to do. You can move to other country rent a place and see how it is there. Maybe you find job or business opportunity. Or you just fuck all the neighbour girls and fuck off. That is what life should be. Not waiting for a paycheck just to waste it.Read More
I know this is a beta habit
Don't fall into that newbie trap of thinking "alpha = good" and "beta = bad".
That's a false dichotomy, and a complete lack of understanding of what alpha and beta are.
Hell, in one of your other recent posts, you mentioned not falling into binary thinking so much. Well, you're doing it again.
Anyway, alpha = arousal. Anything that gets the pussy wet and makes the woman want to fuck you.
Beta = comfort. Anything that makes her want to stick around afterwards. Beta behaviors must be earned by the woman, and engaging in any too soon (especially if you haven't even fucked) will put them off.
A lot of newly-unplugged men have been spending their lives giving unearned beta behaviors, and must learn not to do that, along with learning alpha behaviors.
Don't abandon beta behaviors completely, though. They'll come in handy if/when you find a woman worth keeping around.
'find myself' on some new age bullshit like astrology
Yeah, nothing to do with alpha or beta. It's just stupid.Read More
I just hate that I've conditioned myself to listen to other peoples' feelings first before I make a decision
That's a start. Read up on becoming your own mental point of origin. It's ok to put yourself first.
I'm still in the process of learning a trade because I fucked up in college
You're likely better off.
The skilled trades are underrated as far as careers go, and they're more lucrative than people realize.
College is over-hyped, over-sold, and overrated.
Source: I have a bachelor's degree, but got into a skilled trade in my late 30s because the degree didn't do shit for me.
when I have the money I'll hire a personal trainer
Many gyms offer free consultations with trainers.
because I fucked up with my form way too many times under the false belief that I'm a libra so I'm out of touch with my environment
They're blackmailing me
Give me your Chad coin, or I'll put this cat in a blender!
They will blackmail me to gain a sense of importance due to my lack of game
No, I'm doing it because I want Chad coin!Read More
@elizabethscoffin Western astrology has always been a funny thing, ridiculed in society. One of the reasons why everything is lost in the society is the lack of spiritual growth. Too many examples of ancient texts and knowledge have been available in public for one to be ignorant of.