@Vermillion-Rx

hard on

heh

I'm just making this post because it's just an own my shit post.

I've been too hard on a lot of men. Not that I want to offend or make anyone feel bad about something but because I just figured being blunt is the fastest path to clarity but it really isn't always the best.

I didn't get a lot of direct feedback in my younger years and wish I had gotten mistakes called out sooner so I could fix my shit faster.

Everyone is going through something, even if experienced. Guys mess up. I still mess up, too. Could be a lot gentler or at least end a critique with a boost or rapport. Just trying to own it, we're all human

For anyone I've been this way on it's not personal but I'll do better

@Vermillion-Rx

YOU are gay

@Typo-MAGAshiv

WHY are you GAY?!

I said no homo get off my dick

@Vermillion-Rx

WHY are you GAY?!

Running an AMA on r/TheRedPill

www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/s/FCHTIUYduM

Today the algorithm overlords sent me a video about the planet Saturn. Apparently Saturn is slowly absorbing its rings due to its immense gravitational pull. Towards the end the narrator said that eventually Saturn will become, “Just another gas giant… naked and ringless.” I commented:

So… your average Tinderella?

ba-dum-tsss

@Hamzter so you're a lurker.

The phrase "active lurker" is essentially nonsense. I can tell English isn't your first language, so I was trying to see if you meant something by that odd turn of phrase.

Anyway...

As for the rest of that last reply, your mentality is shit. You seem to think in terms of "all or nothing", ie "either I bag a 10/10 supermodel tier virginal tradwife or I'm a total loser who settled!"

That's garbage.

Just do what you can, and try for what you can get.

There's a whole world full of women out there. Most of them aren't worth bothering with, but some are. Just become more attractive to increase your chances.

@Typo-MAGAshiv I occasionally check what's going on in that community but don't contribute or participate since I'm not married. I believe I can change myself physically, mentally and financially and socially but I'd still be limited in terms of women and dating. I believe it so that I can't satisfy the sky high expectations for a 4ish woman. I can suck up and settle up with a 3rd world woman but what good is that it'd be me settling for something not me acheiving something

@Hamzter

active lurker

What on earth do you mean by that? That's an odd turn of phrase.

If I do improve myself to the extent I'm almost unrecognizable to my old self would I have success ?

1) nothing in life is guaranteed.

2) "almost unrecognizable to my old self" you're still yourself. You're just learning new skills and getting into shape.