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A) for not appreciating Smash Mouth or Crowded House, and
B) for violating the dot red bylaws and shit (almost as badly as I violate your mom):
have some vcards!
Switching between “alpha” and “beta” behaviours creates inconsistency because it reveals emotional reactivity. When things feel good, a man is calm and decisive. When uncertainty hits, he starts over-explaining, over-giving, or seeking reassurance. That’s not strategy; that’s fear leaking through behaviour.
Women don’t analyse this logically; they feel the instability. They don’t know which version of you they’ll get, and that kills polarity over time.
As we already know alpha isn’t being cold or dominant 24/7. It’s emotional self-control. Warm when you choose, silent when you choose, decisive regardless of outcome. No mood swings based on her responses.
If your behaviour changes based on validation or fear of loss, it’s not character, it’s performance. Masculinity is consistency under pressure, not switching masks.
Could you provide examples of the difference you've observed in alpha and beta behavior, and how you believe childhood trauma would influence their decision making?
Read More@Typo-MAGAshiv Wow lady, you actually got to feel like a man! I take it back, being a tranny can sometimes work after all.
Switching between “alpha” and “beta” behaviours creates inconsistency because it reveals emotional reactivity. When things feel good, a man is calm and decisive. When uncertainty hits, he starts over-explaining, over-giving, or seeking reassurance. That’s not strategy; that’s fear leaking through behaviour.
Women don’t analyse this logically; they feel the instability. They don’t know which version of you they’ll get, and that kills polarity over time.
As we already know alpha isn’t being cold or dominant 24/7. It’s emotional self-control. Warm when you choose, silent when you choose, decisive regardless of outcome. No mood swings based on her responses.
If your behaviour changes based on validation or fear of loss, it’s not character, it’s performance. Masculinity is consistency under pressure, not switching masks.
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...and I just had to manually add the word "sexism" to my phone's dictionary.
It had the word "misogyny" by default, but not "sexism". How odd.
@Stigma crap. It'll probably be tomorrow or the next day before I get a chance to actually watch it the whole way through
Second order and third order thinking are not to be taken lightly.
One has to consider what one is in the mood for, what Yelp and Google reviews say is good at that place, price vs budget, and all kinds of other factors.
It can really be difficult!
