The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
3h ago TheRedPill
@financehardo420 I thought so too and stopped talking to her 3 weeks ago. She's been restless. She keeps "appearing" around me wearing stylish clothes and keeps staring at me. So Im very confused now. On one hand this is such a hassle. On the other hand shes hot...
10h ago TheRedPill
@hehehaha 2 word answers is generally an indication of she’s not that into you
17h ago TheRedPill
This woman likes me. I like her. I know this much. She doesn't communicate and expects me to read her mind. Very shy and reserved. I tried to speak to her but she freezes, looks down and gives 2 word answers. What do I do?
And no man *[who actually knows his worth] is going to make the level of sacrifice that a marriage requires for anyone who is just a friend.
FTFY
too many men don't understand that they're actually the prize
@Problematic_Browser this kind of reminds me of one of @Archwinger's old posts: Women are as shitty as you let them be
21h ago TheRedPill
@Problematic_Browser Mate... I would say on the contrary I've seen many many many many men who are in that situation. Sexless marriages. As common as it gets is it not? Sad reality of the western world.
@Freespiri If you're not fucking, you're just friends.
And no man is going to make the level of sacrifice that a marriage requires for anyone who is just a friend.
1d ago TheRedPill
@Problematic_Browser I remember hearing in RP when I was younger (And not just RP but in more mainstream convo) the idea that a healthy romantic relationship must include a healthy amount of sex. Quality over quantity sure, but both the man and the woman should want it and both should initiate it.
As I reach 37, I'm now absolutely sure of this. Both should experience the shared pleasure, both should find it connects them, helps alleviate stress, helps to remind each other of what matters. Its a stress reliever that is shared. I do think Men need it more than women and good women realise this and accomodate for it, just as the man may not care for having a tidy household but keeps it tidy for her needs.
Red pill lesson: "You get what you accept."
One of the lessons I learned from my failed marriage is this: you get what you accept.
My ex was not forthcoming with sex. And that's putting it in a nice way. I recall a conversation we had before we were engaged, and I told her "The amount of sex we're having is going to have to increase or this isn't going to go well".
She made assurances that it would be better after we were married, and I foolishly believed her. I accepted the present conditions and pushed forward.
Needless to say, the sex not only didn't improve, it declined.
My mistakes here were:
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Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do.
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Women do not put in effort for things they have. They put in effort for things they don't.
- You get what you accept. (Which is what I'm going to go into)
You see, if you give a woman something on the conditions that she give you something later, you will never get what you want. If she is "on her weight loss journey" and you give her commitment, she'll be fat forever. If she's the kind to blow money but promises it will be better when she has access to your money, you'll die broke (and alone, because she'll divorce you). If she's the kind to ration sex, her behavior won't change when you capitulate.
When you give women what they want, the transaction has concluded. All promises of compensation or future changes to behavior are void. There are no exchanges, substitutions, or refunds. Get shit on incel.
Do not give a woman commitment on the promise of future behavior, especially if that behavior requires the woman to inconvenience herself. Demand the change in behavior before you offer commitment.
Read MoreThere was a bit of redundancy in there but yeah, this was mostly pertaining to the reddit side where it was originally posted.
Drive-byers are making it impossible to replace all of good writers and killing off our last ECs on there.
Now i will keep posting regardless but we're going to end up a sub without much content at this rate, so I'm just purging every single offender, no warning, because that's what they came into the sub for (as indicated by their sub lists)