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I remember this tale of father that gave Talents to his 3 sons and the best Christian was the one that multiplied his talents the most.
It was a parable told by Jesus, and it was a master lending talents (a unit of weight) of either gold or silver to three servants while he went on a journey. He made them stewards of his money and expected them to do things with it.
2 of them made wise decisions and multiplied the money.
The one to whom he gave only 1 buried it in the dirt, and dug it back up when the master returned home. The master called him an idiot.
Anyway, what's with playing Thread Necromancer?
@Bozza looks help a lot, but game matters more
have some vcards
black pill
Gay and retarded.
looksmaxxing
Gay and retarded.
You get far more mileage doing pretty well at everything (or at least many things) than out of devoting so much time and energy to one aspect that you neglect all others.
To use bar napkin math, if you "looksmax" and put all your time and energy into being a 10/10 in looks, you'll likely be a 4/10 socially (which encompasses a lot of different skills), and a 4/10 in career progression (which doesn't matter for getting laid, but you want a good life for yourself, right?).
You're way better off making yourself like a 7/10 in everything. Once you start hitting diminishing returns, it's time to put some of that time and energy into other things.
You can check out other shit I've said about this using these search results from the site's kickass search feature. I have other conversations to get back to.
Read MoreWhat do you guys thing of the black pill and the rise in popularity of looksmaxxing? i'm sure you have answered this before but i am curious on what you think the importance of looks in dating is. I used to use this website when i was younger for learning game, i have grown older now and just thought i'd have a look
@sharknado Looks are the most important part of dating, no question.
Go down that rabbit hole...
Whatsapp owned by meta - not trusted.
Telegram - owned by Russians, not trusted.
Signal - no accusations but possibly compromised/honeypot.
The ONLY software I would trust is PGP, or GPG. Phil Zimmerman was charged by the US gov of arms export (at the time encryption "export" was illegal) and he circumvented it by publishing PGP as a book to come under the 1st amendment.
Absolute lad.
@Typo-MAGAshiv I remember this tale of father that gave Talents to his 3 sons and the best Christian was the one that multiplied his talents the most.
You might say that knowing women and not to be taken for a ride is a talent, more so talent that is not to be lost but further multiplied. You can go about it like a christian and if you come across a prostitute [not exactly the name of a woman Christ met on a road], you can forgive her right away.
@polishknight Let me tell you this, man. You will lose your mind after I tell you.
I used Telegram a little, on and off. As you might already know, Pavel Durov (founder of Telegram) has been arrested a few years ago. So, from the induction I drew, the quality of userbase went downhill after the arrest. And since the biggest feature of the app is being able to delete all the messages, there are hundreds of inappropriate groups in it. I have seen some. Most are for cucks and incests; whilst other few are about cumtributing etc. I have reported lots of them a year ago and it yielded results, but it isn't enough because they pop up every fucking time (There are also pedophiles who buy and sell child porn).
I’m interested to hear what you’d go about your girlfriend acting out of obligation.
Having gotten your commitment, she sees no reason to do her part of the bargain, chores, or even bother to put in attraction or effort to the relationship.
Now i’m thinking what am i actually getting out of this relationship.
Yup.
Look, I know this really sucks when you're in one of these relationships, but the sad reality is that women are just not able to do monogamy in the way that we are told they can.
She isn't acting out of obligation or out of reciprocation. She is doing the bare minimum to maintain your financial commitment. She is negotiating downwards her required efforts.
I don't have a solution for you other than the observation that you have lost control. You have to keep paying but she does not have to continue putting in efforts. You are in a situation where you do not have control, you cannot remove your side of what you supply, you can't avoid paying the bills. But she sure can avoid doing housework.
Some way some how you need to regain control. Either that's threats of leaving..... or better: completely change everything in your relationship so that you have control over what you supply. What you offer has to be conditional or women will always adapt to extract your resources for the minimum of effort.
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