The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
I'm adjusting to a new way of operating so it's a rough permanent adjustment compared to previous changes. Probably similar to you I take it
Pretty much. More jaded than anything else really. And then trying to rebuild but it's been a bit rocky. The storm will pass, it always does.
I only interacted with women who were stealing me. I didn't approach even one woman tonight who wasn't trying to get my attention. Worked better than usual
Sometimes that's the best play, works surprisingly well. Guess you get the whole preselection going and they start fighting over you.
I assume this is the salsa/dance club or whatever right?
For sure. In my case it isn't a basic down in the dumps. My last thing fundamentally changed me
This is a permanent transformation not a temporary ebb and flow
I'm adjusting to a new way of operating so it's a rough permanent adjustment compared to previous changes. Probably similar to you I take it
But yeah, i did definitely just avoid any semblance of pursuit tonight and of anything that sort of resembled it i immediately abandoned mission the moment i got an ounce of resistance
I only interacted with women who were stealing me. I didn't approach even one woman tonight who wasn't trying to get my attention. Worked better than usual
I haven't gotten a text like this out the gates before. And I even apologized to her a couple times in the night. Mainly because my fuccboi energy was too high so i apologize for being in demand lmao
@Vermillion-Rx Sounds like a positive night though.
That's the thing when you're a little rusty. Lots of ups and downs. I'm in the same position atm. Some days I feel like the fucking man, some days a bit down in the dumps.
As you say, the less you care and the less invested you are the more success flows to you. But when you end up in a rut or on a bit of a losing streak it can sometimes be difficult not to take it to heart.
But hey, you had a solid night. Had some fun. Had a bit of success.
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Lmaaaoooooo
I even hugged my ex fling excessively right in front of this chick and then stayed on the floor with the girl i might fuck tomorrow instead of her at the end of the night
(Situationship chick)
You can tell she wants me to steal her off her situationshit. Challenge accepted
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I didn't waste time like i usually do. The second chicks made it clear they were interested i asked what their weekend looked like
The first one clearly wanted me but outright said she was in a situationship and wasn't ready to be physical with someone else
I didn't even mention anything physical. I just said i was down to make plans. Nothing else. She filled in the blanks. I followed up with "I would like to get your contact information and she filled in her first and last name enthusiastically etc.
Second girl wouldn't really leave me alone after a bit and her male friend tried cutting me off. I said "just want to say bye to her" and then she asked me for my number. Probs gonna fuck her tomorrow if it works.
Just be swift and surgical. Pussy dries up over time just act on plans attempts who cares. They'll say no if they aren't interested
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tonality matters a fucking ton. Since recovering from my last two relationshits I've gotten rusty and demoralized for a lot of reasons
My recovery has been a bit scattershot but after tonight i tried to reset myself tonight and it actually worked well. I spoke slow but clear.
Kept my voice measured and more masculine (not purposely deep) but not fast and chopped out.
Carried myself well. Wasn't afraid to touch where and when it was welcomed. Acted like I was already in with every chick that interacted with me
Just generally acted like I was chill and was a dick to multiple women and they kept crawling back for more because i wasn't mean about it
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It's not you. I had a woman ask for my number and tell me she wanted to hang out. I said okay.
She never texted me back for weeks. She came up to me tonight and acted like no ghosting happened and then kept telling me my moves were "hot"
I don't want to waste my time so I asked why she didn't text back (don't care about the frame loss i just don't play retarded games)
She made up some bullshit. Although before she said she was on the autism spectrum so maybe it was true. Idk I don't know many autistic women so i can't confirm
She left with a dude in a fucking wheelchair tonight. Like i think seriously went home with him.
It's not always you
2d ago TheRedPill
screwing all your doors and windows shut from the INSIDE only to wake up and find that crazy bitch has broken into your house
You gotta admit, the fact she got in is impressive. That's a different level of dedication to the relationship.