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carnold03
17h ago  TheRedPill

@lmhaaaydi

Need help setting up a date. I have no idea where to go. I'm 16 yo, just discovered TRP, and want to know where to take this hot girl I just met. I know she likes me, all I need now is a date idea, any help?

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

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MentORPHEUS
1d ago  TheRedPill
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@lmhaaaydi At 16, everyone is on a learning curve for "adult" activities including dating. For this reason, don't get too worked up and concerned about trying to make everything meet some arbitrary standard of perfect , from your conversation to externalities like the ambience of the places the date happens. What REALLY matters is you remaining present in the moment, not anxious inside your head. This helps you feel and therefore act relaxed and natural, without having to consciously try to.

Good dates often involve a change of venue at some point, rather than staying one place the whole time. Dinner dates are common, but 2 disadvantages: it puts you in a "provider " role right off the bat, and a big meal makes it likely neither of you will feel frisky afterwards. So, save big Dinner dates for when you're older and more established, and in relationships where going home to sleep off a big meal and get frisky another time makes a natural and sensible option. Movie dates are not great for first dates as you can't engage and interact with each other.

What worked well for me when I was hitting a stride on online dating sites, was a very light meal, then a walk in a nice park or nature trail. Good for getting acquainted without pressure or a big obligation, easy to unravel early if you don't match well, or extend if you do.

Especially when you're young, don't take a woman somewhere isolated, fear and anxiety are not good rapport builders. A place where other couples are always in sight works good for this.

Good luck to you! My well meaning Mom had only terrible outdated advice when I started dating so I didn't hit a stride till well into my 20s.

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Typo-MAGAshiv
1d ago  TheRedPill
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@lmhaaaydi keeping in mind what Vermy said about what we can and can't say....

1) read the sidebar

2) cultivate an abundance mentality combined with outcome independence. Relax and have fun! Look at it as gaining experience, even if both of you decide you don't want to see each other again.

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SwarmShawarma
1d ago  TheRedPill

@lmhaaaydi General rules keep it close hone or ta least close to secluded location, where you will try to go.

Get her to come to your place, then go for bawling or similar game you like and not suck at where you stay together. Doing something with your hands will help you to relax and it sounds you'll need that.

During game say you love pancakes. At the end say got hungry and you have pancakes at home you made with hjoc and pieces of kiwi.

If you dont know how to fuck, call me:

0800helpmedaddy

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Vermillion-Rx
1d ago  TheRedPill
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@lmhaaaydi

Hi, i just want to be clear as site administrator we cannot help a minor (under 18) get laid and all comments telling you how will be removed

However, people are free to help you set up logistics for arranging a date

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lmhaaaydi
1d ago  TheRedPill

Need help setting up a date. I have no idea where to go. I'm 16 yo, just discovered TRP, and want to know where to take this hot girl I just met. I know she likes me, all I need now is a date idea, any help?

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First-light
2d ago  TheRedPill

@Vermillion-Rx However some betas have never been the same again after a woman has administered a single very large dose. I count myself in that number -ruined by an overdose administered by two consecutive women two decades ago.

I can have my moments of normality and do a bit of simping when the thirst comes on me or flirt with a bit of white knighting when I feel pity for a woman but in the end I am ruined as a decent beta as my lady likes to complain. I am just no good any more. The red pill didn't make me an alpha, it just ruined me as a beta.

Ladies, some betas have higher tolerances than others but do not administer a high dose of red pill to your beta. He might become useless (to women).

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kv3_0833
2d ago  TheRedPill

@Vermillion-Rx real. Feels like I constantly regress. Worst time was after a short LTR that I really liked. Kicked her to the curb when she was being shady but not before losing my frame internally, took forever to get back in the same mindset

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Vermillion-Rx
2d ago  TheRedPill
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The Red Pill is a lifetime prescription, not a one-time dose.

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@Kragzen Women are not logical, they act on emotion. And those emotions change all the time.

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