@MentORPHEUS Yeah, he was resisting, period. But in the end, that won't really matter. If you watched it frame by frame, you would know he had something in his right hand as he was rearing up from the ground. Gun? Who knows (probably not, but it doesn't actually have to be a gun to matter). All of the cops where clearly spooked by something because they fell back, letting him rise. Empty holster--something in his hand--getting up without being restrained--and a gunshot rings out. Those that shot after the first shot no doubt thought there was a real threat to them. Now what matters, and unfortunately we don't get an answer to this in any video, is where did that first shot come from? Did the one officer just pop one off for giggles? If he did, then he is in trouble. Did the P320 spontaneously discharge, as they are known to do? Well, then that is a completely different story. So who knows so far.

@Stigma As before, I've watched frame by frame from every available angle before assuming much less concluding anything. This time, ICE/ Border patrol officers pumped about 10 rounds into the back of a guy who was on the ground and had already been relieved of his legal concealed carry firearm. At NO point did he threaten the officers. His last act was to attempt to help up a woman who the officers knocked to the icy ground. He had only a phone in one hand and never reached for much less brandished his weapon. I watched a parade of administration spokespeople attack his character and describe him as aggressively attacking the officers when video clearly shows the opposite. He was an ICU nurse at a VA hospital, watch the video of him recently eulogizing one of his longtime patients. It positively breaks my brain watching the 2A, Jan 6 apologist, Don't tread on me, Government overreach crowd ALL rushing to support this murder and the Feds who committed it, and blame and vilify the victim. Note that the scope has crept to murdering straight white men with impunity in the name of "protecting America from worst of the worst violent criminal illegal immigrants." How far will each Trump supporter stay firmly committed to ride or die on this crazy train???

@AnubiswithaDNR

I’m interested to hear what you’d go about your girlfriend acting out of obligation.

Having gotten your commitment, she sees no reason to do her part of the bargain, chores, or even bother to put in attraction or effort to the relationship.

Now i’m thinking what am i actually getting out of this relationship.

Yup.

Look, I know this really sucks when you're in one of these relationships, but the sad reality is that women are just not able to do monogamy in the way that we are told they can.

She isn't acting out of obligation or out of reciprocation. She is doing the bare minimum to maintain your financial commitment. She is negotiating downwards her required efforts.

I don't have a solution for you other than the observation that you have lost control. You have to keep paying but she does not have to continue putting in efforts. You are in a situation where you do not have control, you cannot remove your side of what you supply, you can't avoid paying the bills. But she sure can avoid doing housework.

Some way some how you need to regain control. Either that's threats of leaving..... or better: completely change everything in your relationship so that you have control over what you supply. What you offer has to be conditional or women will always adapt to extract your resources for the minimum of effort.