@Kloi There's an in between. Ideally not a bar ho. Something more like FWB, from somewhere warmer than a bar. Not quite your social circle, but not a bar either.
Young lady displays ZERO self control, or clue how to behave during a traffic stop. Pulled over for 70 in a 35 and with children in the car, she proceeds to ignore the officer at her window, yammering on her phone instead. Volume warning, especially once she's seated in the back of the patrol car and has a Demon Screeching meltdown.
@Vermillion-Rx LOL, story of my young love life. I arrived at adulthood supposedly intellectually gifted, yet for practical purposes socially retarded. My well meaning Boomer Mom's only guidance was, go watch people, how they meet, interact, and fall in love... Thing is, I DID exactly that, night after night. The experience was always subjectively feeling like I was on the wrong planet, watching alien lifeforms perform social rituals blatantly riddled with self deception, fake pretenses, and counter to obvious common sense. This was in the mid 80s, no internet so you had to go to a bookstore or library and read a physical book to learn shit, which was usually already obsolete if not wrong when written out of ignorance, ulterior motive, or bad faith on the authors and publishers part.
Read MoreStripper arrested attempting to cash fraudulent check, along with male companion it's made out to, whose last name she claims not to know. The ONLY thing she has going for her, is large breasts, prominently displayed in nightgown-like attire suggesting to chumps that she's moments away from slipping out of, and into bed with you..
As the video goes on, her face, attitude, demeanor, and ability to tell a coherent narrative, all prove middling level. Useful watch for anyone who pedestalizes or venerated strippers. Also fine example of the adage, Beauty is skin deep, but ugly is to the bone.
@Kloi Same experience with me, it's why I never to LTR and haven't for 15 years.
The issue is options, control and power. It's only crazy if you have blue pill expectations of women to feel gratitude and appreciation of who you are. The reality is that it's all in the context of the relationship, it all comes down to relationship dynamics: power, control, options, expectations.
You LTR knows you can't realistically get sex elsewhere. She low-key hopes you won't snap and cheat or dump her. She's insecure, so you probably reassure her. So she's insecure in herself but somewhat secure in the relationship. That's not a formula for passion, attraction or respect.
Comfort and security kill attraction and ultimately respect. Your attractiveness to a woman is proportional to your perceived other options. In a LTR you have no other options.
Your hos and FWBs know you have options and maybe even other women. She knows she has to treat you better, and that you can soft next her in a heartbeat and you'll still be fine, getting it elsewhere.
You're also leading with hot sex, not security.
The crazy thing to my mind is that women complain that men are not committing, while also making commitment a shit deal. So either they are lying and don't want commitment, or they behave like this and it usually works, or the gender with "deep communication skills and interpersonal awareness dynamics expertise" are actually fundamentally retarded.
Read More@Vermillion-Rx heh...early 90s, my actual brother married his longtime GF. My Dad once gushed what a perfect DIL she was, and in retrospect she took the compliment with slight hesitation. Long story short, when their 2 kids were still in high school, she left to move in with some dude. I had a much harder time with the ladies, so I managed to run out the clock on the idealistic Marry the GF you're fucking age, to the palpable disappointment of my Boomer parents. Looking back on my love life, I dodged a number of Scud Missiles over the decades!
@Vermillion-Rx if we're calling balls and strikes here, this looks more like the full "Man isn't complete till he gets married, then he's finished!" Master kit.
@odaklanan_insan Just watched the video and read the linked article. HOW do I as an American, opt out of financial and political support of these bloody monsters???
