Is my girlfriend a whore? Started talking to this really nice girl. Very innocent and sweet. Not the most beautiful girl I’ve talked to but she seemed really nice/innocent/goodmorals so it justified me settling a bit. So I asked her out.
She was in a 3-4 year relationship in highschool/ college. I asked her how many relationships she has had and she said five. Then I asked her N count… she said 18 at age 23. (She said 8 at first).
Since when is it normal for a a 23yo woman to have had 18 guys. That’s obsurd to me. But come to find out most college girls are even higher, and most girls will just lie about it.
Now I feel like an idiot because here I am buying her flowers, taking her on dates and doing all these nice things meanwhile she’s just let random bar dudes rail her. I’m not even jealous, I’m disgusted and I feel disrespected.
Am I in the wrong here? Am I thinking too deep about this? Or am I right and being a whore is wayyy to accepted in this day and age?
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Is my girlfriend a whore? Started talking to this really nice girl. Very innocent and sweet. Not the most beautiful girl I’ve talked to but she seemed really nice/innocent/goodmorals so it justified me settling a bit. So I asked her out.
She was in a 3-4 year relationship in highschool/ college. I asked her how many relationships she has had and she said five. Then I asked her N count… she said 18 at age 23. (She said 8 at first).
Since when is it normal for a a 23yo woman to have had 18 guys. That’s obsurd to me. But come to find out most college girls are even higher, and most girls will just lie about it.
Now I feel like an idiot because here I am buying her flowers, taking her on dates and doing all these nice things meanwhile she’s just let random bar dudes rail her. I’m not even jealous, I’m disgusted and I feel disrespected.
Am I in the wrong here? Am I thinking too deep about this? Or am I right and being a whore is wayyy to accepted in this day and age?
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