Incel problems
After a good 1.5 years of studying TRP I finally took major action about 3 weeks ago. I went on 8 dates in 14 days. Didnt get laid. Took a week off. Then the day came I was supposed to finally lose my V card. A girl invited me over to fuck. Nothing else. That was my only purpose there. But when we started somwthing interesting happened. First I busted during the foreplay. Then I couldnt get my dick up for 30min. (Im 20) And then I again busted trying to make my dick hard.
Why tf did that happen and how can I prevebt it from happening? Side note: I stopped watching porn and beating it about 1 year ago so my balls were completly full at the time of this event.
Is this how escalation works?
So far I went on 10 Tinder dates. 3 were not dtf in the first place. 6 were but I didnt know how to initiate anything. But with one it was clear from the start what we were going to do. So when I arrived at her place we casually talked for a few minutes. Then I sat closer and slowly started touching more and more and later undressing etc.
That felt somewhat natural even tho it was my first time doing this but the girl specifcly invited me over for that so there were no issues there. But what if I meet a girl on a more "normal" date. How does that work? Say she's meeting me at my place 3 days before moving to a different city. Seems pretty clear to me what she wants but it still is a bit different than when she directly says she wants to fuck. How do I navigate such a situation?
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So far I went on 10 Tinder dates. 3 were not dtf in the first place. 6 were but I didnt know how to initiate anything. But with one it was clear from the start what we were going to do. So when I arrived at her place we casually talked for a few minutes. Then I sat closer and slowly started touching more and more and later undressing etc.
That felt somewhat natural even tho it was my first time doing this but the girl specifcly invited me over for that so there were no issues there. But what if I meet a girl on a more "normal" date. How does that work? Say she's meeting me at my place 3 days before moving to a different city. Seems pretty clear to me what she wants but it still is a bit different than when she directly says she wants to fuck. How do I navigate such a situation?
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