What are your opinions about doing daygame as a exclusive activity? I believe is just too time consuming & doesn't worth the effort. I would do daygame in the meantime i do something else (like enjoying a social activity, place, vacations etc.. not going somewhere with the only purpose of gaming women). Maybe if i have some spare time from going to place A to B, and i will be going walking (something very rare on my case).
A 6HB tinder match i had like a year ago hit me up from nowhere "Hey, i'm waiting for a msg from you to go out with you since May!". I invited her like 2 times when we matched, she always had an excuse, then soft next. We should be going out on sunday. If i don't lose a kidney in the process, i'll update.
I'm at my beach side hometown, summer season here. Tons of 8's ( 9 & 10 too of course) just having nothing to do. Invited out the waitress at the beach restaurant. a solid 9, 20yr old. I hate to cold approach people that is working, but this was too good to let it pass. Did it as just invited her out when she bring me the check, and give her my number, so it didn't look like she needed to give me hers in the middle of her shift. Solid interaction, constant eye contact. Of course, it will not work, but is a first tiny step to do some cold approach this last days i have left here. With luck, maybe i will have a FR to post.
@adam-l Pride. Totally. i can live whiteout intimacy. After a while, the paid intimacy lost it's meaning. Not completely discard it, but is just not as fulfilling. I have a tinder date today, with an HB6 / 30yr old, so, maybe i will make a new improvement.
@disabledtrp What hurts more, the lack of intimacy or the pride?
Also, I don't know how this idea that paying for sex is shameful came to be. We all end up paying for sex, one way or another. Geez, it's even the default mating procedure for the "elite."
I've read your article, of course. I'd be thrilled to hear that you have broken new ground again, but frankly, it might be as good as it gets. And, objectively, it's deamn good too. When there are even naturals that get divorce raped and have their children abducted, you just living life and enjoying sex is kick-ass.
@Caldero Like i said, the username has a practical objective, nothing else. Moving on. Let me clarify that i don't really care about people likeness except in practical terms (even less for fake internet points, if i can't cash out that for money). My view of an "alpha" is independence of everything (something that i achieved), but that doesn't equal loneliness. i don't depend on people to live, to enjoy, to strive, but that doesn't mean i don't like to have or even needs on certain context, to enjoy specific things, of people, of women. I can be on my own, with no one to like me, perfectly fine. at the same time, that would make me miss experiences & fun things along the way (or even cap my personal & professional improvement).
You would do a BBQ alone? or pay someone to come to your BBQ just to have someone at your side to talk about things? isn't more fun to make a hike somewhere, even if i can only join you for the resting part or the chill out that doing it alone? You can make every professional project or endeavor completely alone? Isn't better to have a weekend trip to the beach with a women at your arm, that you can tease, kiss, feel, look at the eyes, grab a nice ice cream cone & walk as much as we could?
Does all of this things are indispensable for my happiness? NO. They are a plus, a bonus. And with an independence mindset, it allows me to enjoy them more, why i don't care. I know i can produce more or live whiteout them but I'm an ambitious person. I want it all. I wake up everyday to "eat the world raw" (it's a saying we say around here). I want the "plus" of life too.
I hope this clarifies a bit my view in the matter, thanks for your input, even if we don't agree, i believe that discussion, on things that are so subjective like this and with very little factual data to support every person statements, is probably the best tool to improve ourselves.Read More
@adam-l You are totally right, i agree that's it's overvalued. Maybe my words make it looks like this is the only thing in my life and make everyday miserable, like an incel. Not the case. I have a lot of fun, love my work, my hobbies, going to the gym. I have a happy life, can't complain. It would be a plus with women in the picture, but not essential. On the prostitutes subject, i had similar arrangements, that has bring me a lot of fun. It just that paying with money, hurts my pride and is something i have problems to manage. It makes me feel like a beta who needs to pay to have it, when others have it for free (and under my subjective view, i believe i have the same or even better qualities that the ones make it for free). Maybe i could kill some of my pride in the future or looking somehow with another look, to enjoy the practical part of it.Read More
@Caldero did you actually read his article?
@disabledtrp I understand the craving for female intimacy and genuine attraction, just remember that however good it feels, it's still overvalued. Women can't really have human intimacy. It only fires up when they meet the (perceived) Superman, and lasts for as long as that perception holds.
Schopenhauer had a life-long hired prostitute (he left her a big chunk of his property in his will) and Darvin did a written list to compare between getting a wife or a dog (wife won only marginally).