OP, is your guy friend blue or red pill? And by that, I don’t mean is/isn’t on this forum. I mean from his actions and how he manages his relationship. Hint: if you aren’t sure, 90%+ chance he is.

Assuming he is BP, and he agreed with his girlfriend to introduce you, it means that your interests are likely not at heart, only this girl’s. If your guy friend is blue pill, his GF runs the show, and decided to introduce you.

A few possibilities…

• This girl is single, and needs a boyfriend. But it doesn’t matter whether you want to be one or not.
• This girl is unattractive, and can’t get men. Doesn’t matter whether you find her attractive, or if you want her.
• This girl has low social skills or a terrible personality. But she’s single, and they don’t care whether you will enjoy that personality.
• This girl is crazy and can’t hold down a man for long. But all her friend cares about is getting her the guy, not her craziness or destructiveness.

Note that none of these possibilities take into account what you want. You are just “lucky” to be given the chance. That’s the mentality if your guy friend is blue pill. If this was set up to help you, you wouldn’t be getting complaints about “talking to other girls” when you haven’t spent more than 1 hour with this chick, let alone fucked her or started a relationship.

A guy friend actually helping you out here would sound more like, “Hey dude, that chick over there has been eyeing you up. Go talk to her.”

But anyway, without any context about how close you and your homie are, I think you should drop this clown social circle. Why should you have to not talk to other girls when you haven’t even kissed this chick? It sounds like she wasn’t even interested in you. This is controlling behavior, and again, you barely know this chick.

You did pretty well, did some kino, you got low interest, and went to talk to other girls. Game-wise, that’s very solid, and it’s totally normal to be nervous, plus you still kino’d and talked to her. It’s not your job to make someone who is a no, into a yes.

But this shit where she starts complaining about you behind your back and poisoning the well for you: it’s toxic. And it’s negative utility. Even if you were interested in this chick, she has demonstrated that she is not a solid person at all. Think about it: if you had a guy friend who talked shit behind your back and you knew about it, how long would this guy still be your friend?