So I have been going to this gym regularly for past 5 months or so. Its a new gym and have made some acquaintances here with the guys. Not friends per se but I am familiar even with the trainers and the rest of the staff.

Now, I have seen a few cute and a couple of hot women in the gym. There is even a milf that comes in regularly. I have had no interest in them because I do game outside and none of these women really made me go wowzy I want her. You know what I mean.

Now since last week, this new girl started coming in and I am kinda thrown off by her. Why you might ask? What could possibly be so different about another potential walking lawsuit? I don't know. She is young maybe? And insanely hot. Like this girl has the right facial features that invoke something primal in me and I am feeling this feeling after a long period of time. I have travelled all over the globe and became TRP aware about 5 years ago. I am in pretty great shape and look good too. Its not under confidence.

And crazy thing is, I have caught her eyeing me. Like thrice now. You know the look that woman give when they stare right through your existence to give a hint you could take her back to your Honda to give her candy right that moment. Yeah that one. I wish I was hallucinating this.

Problem? She is definitely like 19-20. Maybe 21. I am 32 and kinda worried about my reputation in the gym. Frankly, I don't care much but I like this gym. I always figured gyms are a no-go territory for women to be hit on.

Should I approach her? What would I even say as my opener? "You make me go week in my knees. Like literally when I see you in the gym".

If I have to answer my own question I know- stop being a wuss just say hey being seeing you around. Thought I had say hi"

I clearly need some gold ol' intervention from the community on this strange phenomenon I am experiencing (after years).

You need to move on dude. If she makes the date work then good for you. If not then it's not going to happen.

This is the same for all women. You cannot mentally masturbate yourself into a woman wanting to see you

I am removing the next post you make about this woman. This is too ridiculous and I'm not going to let users waste their time on this woman anymore. It's getting to the point where even if you somehow were able to fuck her at this point, that you will have been so invested in it that you are going to end up flooding the front page with every little problem you end up having with her

For your sake I hope she doesn't go out with to put you out of your misery. She is going to do you a disservice if she goes out with you because you are way too fucking invested

She is also on tinder. Her schedule is probably already filled with men who she would not make wait. She is probably currently or close to having sex with another tinder guy. You are probably in all likelihood thirsting this bad over a woman who has other options.

If it is this hard to get logistics with a woman it is because she has other priorities. Stop making posts about her. You already know she probably isn't high interest