@User4566

What to do when I have nothing? I’m in a serious rut.

Past few days, I’ve been suffering. Been doing cold approach at college and so far, every girl acted super awkward and not social at all. Everyone around here just walks to class and theres tons of people who simply don’t talk to each other. I feel terrible. I’m not good looking enough for tinder or the bars and clubs because that’s for the high-status chads which I am not. I’m a nobody, a guy with 0 friends outside my roommates. I talked to a chick earlier who was helping me with homework and she agreed that the school is very antisocial but she did say that she isn’t very good with talking to people she doesn’t know. I guess girls here aren’t used to being cold approached, that’s why they act so weird. It’s tough.

As I was saying, I’ve been an outcast my whole life and I just take things personally when people don’t like me. I feel unwanted almost everywhere I go. When I go to bars alone, everyone already knows each other and girls talk amongst themselves and I’m way to pussy to approach. I don’t know how to approach chicks in a bar, either. I have no friends and no life outside of school. Maybe I should join a club or something.

I feel like if girls found me attractive, they would be a lot more receptive to my approaches. Maybe I’m not talking to them for long enough. I don’t get it.

The reason why I joined this forum was because I want to be a better person. I gave up video games and I haven’t masturbated to porn in 1 month. I’m devoting a lot of time to try to socialize but I’m always being shut down. I’m scared it’s going to be this way forever and I’m simply not worthy of people.

I feel unwanted, unloved, and not cared for. What should I do?

Not everything that goes wrong in your life will be solely your fault. While there will definitely be failures due to your own ignorance or laziness that will hamper you, there will also be many others due to sabotage as well. In this instance, day game in the morning hours on a college campus will usually fail because like any aspiring productive young adult, the girls you're looking to engage have someplace to be, things to do, and if you want to be seen as a male worth a females time and attention so must you. Keep in mind that the females on college campuses today aren't studying subjects that will make them either better wives to men or mothers to their future children. Their schooling is intended to make them compliant worker drones in our societies degenerating corporate-industrial machine, same as you. So don't take this as you should stop cold approaching, but maybe relax about being overly concerned with the negative outcomes. Females are to compliment your life's journey, not be the thing that defines it. If you don't have anywhere to be in the mornings, take up gardening, hit the gym, join a jogging or running club to help you get in shape or develop your physique.

In time you'll find love, but for now the best we can do is recommend that you seek out affection. A lot of guys can advise you on banging sluts, others can suggest strategies on hiring a whore, but for your situation I'd suggest you get yourself a small pet. It's vastly more rewarding, costs significantly less, and doesn't require condoms or birth control. So start with something easy to care for that won't take up too much space in your home or dramatically impact your budget. Maybe a hamster to as its habitat is easy to maintain and should live for a good few years. When you finish college, you can also graduate to a larger animal. Maybe a rabbit, a cat, or a small dog.

As for your dealings with women, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library.