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I know this is a beta habit
Don't fall into that newbie trap of thinking "alpha = good" and "beta = bad".
That's a false dichotomy, and a complete lack of understanding of what alpha and beta are.
Hell, in one of your other recent posts, you mentioned not falling into binary thinking so much. Well, you're doing it again.
Anyway, alpha = arousal. Anything that gets the pussy wet and makes the woman want to fuck you.
Beta = comfort. Anything that makes her want to stick around afterwards. Beta behaviors must be earned by the woman, and engaging in any too soon (especially if you haven't even fucked) will put them off.
A lot of newly-unplugged men have been spending their lives giving unearned beta behaviors, and must learn not to do that, along with learning alpha behaviors.
Don't abandon beta behaviors completely, though. They'll come in handy if/when you find a woman worth keeping around.
'find myself' on some new age bullshit like astrology
Yeah, nothing to do with alpha or beta. It's just stupid.Read More
I just hate that I've conditioned myself to listen to other peoples' feelings first before I make a decision
That's a start. Read up on becoming your own mental point of origin. It's ok to put yourself first.
I'm still in the process of learning a trade because I fucked up in college
You're likely better off.
The skilled trades are underrated as far as careers go, and they're more lucrative than people realize.
College is over-hyped, over-sold, and overrated.
Source: I have a bachelor's degree, but got into a skilled trade in my late 30s because the degree didn't do shit for me.
when I have the money I'll hire a personal trainer
Many gyms offer free consultations with trainers.
because I fucked up with my form way too many times under the false belief that I'm a libra so I'm out of touch with my environment
They're blackmailing me
Give me your Chad coin, or I'll put this cat in a blender!
They will blackmail me to gain a sense of importance due to my lack of game
No, I'm doing it because I want Chad coin!Read More
@elizabethscoffin Western astrology has always been a funny thing, ridiculed in society. One of the reasons why everything is lost in the society is the lack of spiritual growth. Too many examples of ancient texts and knowledge have been available in public for one to be ignorant of.
@elizabethscoffin why base your opinion of yourself on something as fickle and ephemeral as the opinions of others? Especially women, who really are the poster child for "fickle and ephemeral" lol.
If its about women here, then I'll say they are attracted to confidence more than anything and that true confidence comes from internal, not external, sources.
Loving yourself means loving yourself even if everyone else doesn't. And sometimes, maybe even most times, they won't and that's okay.