@thegap same answers you received in this thread a couple of years ago.

As far as applying useful stuff to your life, that's mostly determined by you, what jives with your experience, and what your goals are (and you're allowed to change your mind).

In other words: just start trying and applying stuff. Mindful application. Observe, orient, decide, act. Then back to observe again, and continue the OODA loop.

As for some of the links not working, can you tell us the specific titles? Some of us who remember what to look for might be able to dig it back up. Caveat: we all have lives, careers, etc and don't do this shit for a living, so don't expect instantaneous results (or even a response every time).

What really sucks is the internet as it used to be is kind of dying, and a lot of good shit is getting lost. The entire internet is turning into about a half-dozen social media sites posting screenshots of shit from the other sites, and AI-generated garbage.

Where should I start with TRP? Looking for a proper roadmap without all the bullshit

Hello everyone I'm 18 years old, turning 19 soon, and I'm interested in learning more about TRP.

Tbh I kind of understand what TRP is about, or at least I think I do but I still want to get the basics right and properly understand everything. I've come across a lot of posts and articles but I'm honestly pretty confused about where to start and what I should actually focus on.

I also don't want to become one of those guys who just reads about this stuff endlessly like a retard without actually applying anything to his life. I'm into self-improvement, and I want to improve myself, get better with girls, become more confident, and have that playboy type of lifestyle lowkey lol. I don't want to get overly attached to girls or end up hung up on one person for years.

There's also this one girl from years ago (my unicorn, if you know what I mean) that I still want to move on from completely. I want to get to a point where I'm not emotionally stuck on someone from my past and can move forward with my life.

So I'm looking for something practical and structured, not just a bunch of random posts to read.

Is there a proper roadmap or guide for learning TRP from the basics and actually applying the useful parts to your life? Should I start with the sidebar, a particular reading list, or something else entirely? A lot of the sidebar links don't seem to work anymore.

I'd really appreciate recommendations on where to start, what to focus on first, and what I can do in practice rather than spending months just consuming content.

I'm looking for the actual useful stuff without all the unnecessary bullshit, so any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks!

@mattyanon Quite agree. I was not giving them a pass but doing the very opposite. I was saying that it is a fairly normal condition, suffered by millions of woman, so a normal condition caused by natural hormone changes can't possibly be an excuse for utterly aberrant behaviour. It's not normal to go and kill your family because you got depressed by the natural process of having a family. Millions of women do not do this when they get PND, so to argue its an excuse is nonsense.

The millions of men who are depressed don't kill their families either. A similar thing would be to say "Got depressed when wife left me, so killed kids".

What is being attempted by her defence team is "because vagina, so pussy pass" Only women get Post natal depression (men just get depressed when the new mother makes their life hell, has mood swings, blames it on them and then ignores them except for treating them as a home appliance). Because only women get this common medical condition, its a feminist issue.

The logic of "because vagina", so pussy pass" is never good. The terrible implications of this nonsense should be stood up to and made an example of.