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@Saltycroc one of the big advantages of not being married or living together, is that ending things when she's no longer adding any value to your life is easy.
It's one thing if someone is tired or has a legit reason not to fuck as a one-off. Habitual denial just to watch you squirm, whatever her dumb mouth-noises are to the contrary? She's lost attraction and worse, respect for you.
Whatever effort it would take to get those things back from her, would be better expended on new women with whom you have a fresh start. Just don't repeat any mistakes.
@carnold03 again, fucking knock it off with the gay-ass copy+paste of that retarded book. @mattyanon already told you several times, months ago. Quit spamming that garbage.
I'm saying this to you both as an EC and as a site administrator. You're already blowing off another one by ignoring matty's instructions. You'll be looking at a site-wide ban if you keep this crap up.
@carnold03 fucking knock it off with the gay-ass copy+paste of that retarded book. @mattyanon already told you several times, months ago. Quit spamming that garbage.
LTR not wanting sex
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Cut out the emotional and needy behaviour and reassert yourself as a priority.
“doesn't want us to only get on when we have just had sex”
Tell her to cut out her shit, remind her she will be a used up hag in short order and she’d best get back to opening her legs before she’s demoted to rotation.
@Saltycroc As you've described it, it is a very big deal. It's similar to a situation I heard of recently where a girl all of a sudden decided she wouldn't have sex with her fiance until they were married, a date over a year in the future. Of course, she had lots of fun with other men previously; she's no virgin.
Put some distance between you and her. No long discussions, just pursue other interests that don't include her and be open to meeting other women. Hate to say it, but she's not all that attracted to you. Could be a number of reasons for that, but it's hard to reverse it once that happens.
we didn't argue over sex. actually a lot of it was because she was scared I was losing interest. anyway its a long and boring story so I won't go into it.
do you think its not worth having these kind of conversations with women at all?
like when I can feel a confrontation starting, I just leave the situation, instead of having a serious conversation with her.
only talk to her when its fun, otherwise I just clock out.
I always thought this was only worth doing with plates and in an LTR I should have more of these serious conversations.
do you think this is wrong and if things are getting hostile, I just walk away until everything has calmed down?
I know some people here would say when she with-drawls sex the relationship is already over
People here will say that because it's the truth.
Now, maybe, if you were married with kids, I'd suggest pulling away your attention, spending more time away from home etc.
But you're not married with kids though. She's just a girlfriend. She should be all over you at this moment in time, to the point where playing these withdrawing-sex-games would be a massive bummer to herself.
This is a simple 'next'. Either a hard next, or a soft next. In either case, you don't take her seriously again. Because you now know what the future has in store for you with this broad.
Also know that women shit test because they're unsure of their attraction to you. And that's fine early stage. But there comes a time when either the shit testing has to stop, or you need to realise this chick isn't that into you. That time is well before you give her the girlfriend status.
Dump her, or put her on the side, and in the future, only take seriously women who are undeniably into you, and don't shit test you.
Also, learn to keep your fucking cool. You don't argue over sex. It's pathetic. You either dump, or you get it elsewhere. But you don't negotiate - which is what arguing and making her cry is.
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Guys , I am 6ft6 , 22 year old guy , 87kg bodyweight, I am recompositioning everyday for that ottermode build Worked on dressing Worked on grooming Pretty much done everything stated over here . Still can't get laid . Can anyone suggest a few things ?
My answer : I feel like maybe some lack of game might be a problem but i can't quite a lay a finger upon it . (I am from India btw so don't go spamming cold approaching nd all , that typa shtick generally don't work here)
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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LTR not wanting sex
Me and her have been arguing a lot recently and we have both been pretty upset. She has cried a lot.
Today was our first nice day out together in a couple weeks. At the end i put my hand round her neck in a playful way whilst we were waiting for our uber home.
She said she didn't want to have sex when we got home. I just replied with “thats fine”
When we get home she later says that we should stop having sex for a little while because she “doesn't want us to only get on when we have just had sex”
After a while we ended up making out a bit but that was it.
Is this a huge deal?
I know some people here would say when she with-drawls sex the relationship is already over
+ I should add that when we argued i ended up acting needy and emotional at times so that may have killed attraction
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
Beyond that, the only other thing coming to mind for me is that you should just...
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