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I don’t like writing posts that sound like begging for money, and if you’ve been following my work for any length of time you’ll know that among the red pill gurus that come and go in this sphere, I’m one of the few that has not really attempted in any big way to monetize my work.

I’ve always believed in the freedom of information. The exchange of this information has been such a high priority to me, I’ve cultivated a community on Reddit, two independent websites (the development and continued hosting, funded entirely by me), and a number of offshoots on various platforms.

The meat and potatoes of my work (both written and curated) has always been free and available. In fact- a lot of “gurus” just collect my work, repackage it and try to sell it for $$$, but you can get it all for free if you just follow my work.

That said, this is time consuming, and in some cases, actually quite costly. Our membership on TRP.RED has done a phenomenal job self-funding at least some of our hosting costs, which has brought our platform into ad-free status. Which is nice, because the ads sucked.

However, in the next few weeks / months, we are planning on growing our space and releasing more content, projects, and some very entertaining things. And you might want to learn about it. (You can if you subscribe to the patreon!)

These things cost money to fund, and suck up a lot of my time. I would like to be able to do more for the community and I’m able to do so with a little extra financial freedom.

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Exclusive news (and early access) about the upcoming projects are available to paid subscribers and I gotta tell you, it’s going to be a fun Summer for TRP.

I will always continue posting my essays on Substack, TRP.red, and /r/theredpill, largely free, for my audience. Writing for me is cathartic and if it helps you on your journey it’s time well spent. However, I am going to introduce one big change to the substack:

New Posts will be able to be previewed early on Patreon before they appear elsewhere, and occasionally there will be subscriber-only posts that can only be read as Patreon subscribers.

(Sidenote: I’ve looked into hooking up stripe on substack and it just doesn’t seem like a great option for privacy, at least right now).

Additionally, I don’t usually do a lot of one-on-one coaching. My forte has always been curating and broadcasting information. However, in the case that somebody does want to reach me for one-on-one, I am introducing a tier on the patreon (LTR) that’s outrageously priced but will indeed get you one-on-one advice and discussion. It’s expensive because I only plan to offer this to an exclusive few. I am not starting a bootcamp online school for the boys, but I am offering a few select slots for immediate access directly to me if you truly desire it.

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@Smallpenis77

Is my girlfriend a whore? Started talking to this really nice girl. Very innocent and sweet. Not the most beautiful girl I’ve talked to but she seemed really nice/innocent/goodmorals so it justified me settling a bit. So I asked her out.

She was in a 3-4 year relationship in highschool/ college. I asked her how many relationships she has had and she said five. Then I asked her N count… she said 18 at age 23. (She said 8 at first).

Since when is it normal for a a 23yo woman to have had 18 guys. That’s obsurd to me. But come to find out most college girls are even higher, and most girls will just lie about it.

Now I feel like an idiot because here I am buying her flowers, taking her on dates and doing all these nice things meanwhile she’s just let random bar dudes rail her. I’m not even jealous, I’m disgusted and I feel disrespected.

Am I in the wrong here? Am I thinking too deep about this? Or am I right and being a whore is wayyy to accepted in this day and age?

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

@Kloi

Two things.

First, although for us men, to be loved is our greatest desire, if only because it never really happens, we must have a mission greater than simply that. So that the love of a woman is relegated to the background.

How do you do that? In a sense, it's a faux "fake it till you make it". Some men do it "naturally", they are perpetually enthused by the new little project, some others "autistically" stick to greater projects, and, truth is, much of humanity's advancement is because of this. In any case, you don't really ever "make it" (that's why I say faux), because the need to be loved is never extinguished. The good news is that in old age there's a psychological switch, and these issues feel much less urgent, and you feel much more content with much less. So, there's that.

Second thing: being always on the lookout for the inevitable fallout is, obviously, not a pleasant or feasible strategy. What you can do, instead, is decide your hard limits, and let go within these limits. Maybe you'll never marry. Maybe you'll never give her children. Maybe you'll always keep separate finances. Things like that.

In the end of the day, getting all of our desires met is more a curse than a blessing, so we have to embrace the lack.