@MiserableIron

New to the TRP community , Help would be quite appreciated .

Guys , I am 6ft6 , 22 year old guy , 87kg bodyweight, I am recompositioning everyday for that ottermode build Worked on dressing Worked on grooming Pretty much done everything stated over here . Still can't get laid . Can anyone suggest a few things ?

My answer : I feel like maybe some lack of game might be a problem but i can't quite a lay a finger upon it . (I am from India btw so don't go spamming cold approaching nd all , that typa shtick generally don't work here)

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

@Saltycroc

LTR not wanting sex

Me and her have been arguing a lot recently and we have both been pretty upset. She has cried a lot.

Today was our first nice day out together in a couple weeks. At the end i put my hand round her neck in a playful way whilst we were waiting for our uber home.

She said she didn't want to have sex when we got home. I just replied with “thats fine”

When we get home she later says that we should stop having sex for a little while because she “doesn't want us to only get on when we have just had sex”

After a while we ended up making out a bit but that was it.

Is this a huge deal?

I know some people here would say when she with-drawls sex the relationship is already over

+ I should add that when we argued i ended up acting needy and emotional at times so that may have killed attraction

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

Beyond that, the only other thing coming to mind for me is that you should just...

@SoloAndSober

Going to Halloween event at club solo and sober

Last night I realized I had no Halloween plans and on a whim decided to buy tickets and a costume for a party on Halloween night hosted by a local club/casino. There will be electronic live music.

I am hoping to just try and gain some sort of social momentum and improve my social skills as they are severely fucking retarded from the last couple years.

I can't dance for shit and I plan on dressing as a "Sexy" vampire; I can't drink because my cvnt mother got me arrested on felony charges and I'm on probation essentially and get drug tested every 3-5 days.

So, please give me some advice so I can work out a game plan. I have no one I can go with so that is out of the picture. I am 25 years old, white, 6'4" and skinny with little muscle. I don't lift weights and I don't have height inserts either.

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

@GeorgeIII

Thanks for the thoughts and reading recommendation.

I’m “open” to a relationship, like we say is the appropriate stance for a man around here. As in open to one with a good woman that works for me.

Right now she’s treating me fairly well. If I sense she’s losing attraction (declining sex, being ruder, etc) I’ll just kill it off. Or run off with another plate.

You didn't come here seeking permission or approval on your choices, only confirmation that they were the best for you to make. If what you've written is true, then the book will serve you well when our counsel is unavailable to you as well as be a useful starter for your future sons.

What you're doing has got this gal wanting you so bad she can probably taste it. Keep at it. If you've not outright sworn off marriage, you've nothing to lose by continuing to present similarly enthusiastic plates with challenges and opportunities where they can earn the potential realization of their relationship goal. Just don't forget to vet all your plates along the way.