The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
I was going to reply to this
IMO you shouldn't have a problem with her getting pregnant.
But then I saw this:
how should they track me down? If it's my kid, I'm cool with playing. It's still my kid. But in the worst case scenario, I will use 100% of my free will and disappear. Not even the state will find me.
I believe you are not being realistic. In a "dude, slap your face" manner.
Take this advice: you are not ready to have a kid, and if you do in the near future it will probably destroy your life, as well as your kid's.
The capacity and willingness to "walk away" may have a lot to do with fucking bitches, but it has nothing to do with raising kids.
Make sure you don't knock someone up as you gain experience in life. Consider having a kid on purpose only after you 're 35.
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Additionally, @Durek_The_Bald tried to start #OwnYourPooWeekly back here but it kind of fizzled out.
@First-light for my part, I'm really glad I never knocked up any of my exes
I would hate to have any of them still in my life because of a kid in common
It's a dumb rule. Because if you follow it, you're marrying someone you haven't vetted properly, and you'll have no experience maintaining attraction with someone you can't hide yourself from.
I mean, he says within the rule and its blog post that you only move in together if you're planning to marry her soon (6 months). So there goes that objection.
Really, my only objection to it is that getting married without our nations doing a serious overhaul of the laws governing marriage is a terrible idea, and marriage/LTR shouldn't be a man's goal anyway (religious needs aside for now).
Simply renting a place together isn't really that complicated of a thing to get out of
Yes the fuck it is lol
not compared to owning shit together, being married, and having kids.
True, but that's like saying "this fatal disease that causes a lot of pain really isn't that bad compared to this other fatal disease that's a lot worse".
At worst (unless you're retarded), it'll cost you a couple of months' rent when things go tits up.
Oh, is that all? It's a good thing anyone can afford that quite easily and it won't cause any complications in trying to find a new place to live or anything!
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If you keep your life simple, as I recommend, and do not marry or cohabit, then if one of your women crosses a boundary, you end it. No muss, no fuss, and onto the next one (or ten).
I mean do you tell your wife she should do x or you do leave?
No, making threats and delivering ultimatums makes you look weak. And women will call your bluff, so don't bluff.
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Have you read the sidebar?
Both at TRP and MRP?
Is there a version of Own Your Shit threads from r/marriedredpill for dudes that are either single or in shorter relationships? I’m wanting a structure like that to log my progress and keep myself accountable with other dudes. Would that just be field reports? Thanks
I actually enjoy living with women I'm currently fucking. The feminine touch to the house and all that.
In all the places i've lived. ALL of the drama has always come from women. Without exception.
Currently living through this. I've been renting two of my boys extra bedrooms and it went swimmingly for the first 7 or 8 months until his girlfriend decided she needed to move in.
Now there's constant comments about the dishes, laundry, yard work and you'd think with all these extra comments, the house would be immaculate but it's some how worse.
@Kloi The highlight
The house? In her name. Same with all the bills.
I'd add. Let her pay (invest) for as much as possible. Once you'll leave everything behind it has already paid for itself.