@kawzero

Should I bang her

What's up Brothers, hope you're all good.

I'm a teacher in a school, and I stay in the staff quarters/lodge.

One of the female teachers seems into me. She has been giving me lots of IOIs, such as unnecessary playful touches, laughing at my statements which don't seem funny etc.

she also said (if she were to date any guy among the guys, it would be me) during a Truth or Dare game.

She is always tensed around me.

She has an apartment in another town, and only comes to teach twice a week.

She also reviewed during the Truth/Dare game that, she isn't really ready for a serious relationship RN.

I just want to bang her, and maybe make her a plate. I don't want a anything serious.

Is this a good idea? I'm thinking I get her number, chat with her. Then tell her I want to come over her place. My aim is just to fuck her. I have no serious plans with her.

I don't have an apartment of my own. The room in the staffs lodge I stay is shared with 2 other guys.

Thanks for your feedback!

Attempt to answer: I think it's not a bad idea, because I don't have any serious plans with her.

Whether you do or don't make the moves to bang your female co-worker is entirely up to you. You don't need our permission or approval to do as you please, but this action isn't something a lot of more experienced guys here would recommend until such a time as you've at least confirmed an imminent transition to another employer. Getting romantically or sexually involved with females working under the same employer can complicate your life should that female decide to weaponize the employer against you if things don't go her way.

As you're working in education and dependent on employer provided lodging, it reads too much like her situation is more secure than your own. This suggests either she, or her family, are better networked with your current employer than you are. Instead, consider focusing on working your job, paying off your debts, building up your savings, studying the book, and pursuing females who don't work for your current employer.

@Lebbaeus

Just noticed your message. Interestingly, I unconsciously did what you were saying. My family runs a business and I just have been focusing on small aspects of that I've neglected over the years. My drive throughout my life was always to be elite. That video is spot on. I don't want to chase the mirage. Porn, substances leave me feeling empty.Chasing women is not best ROI.

Honestly, I just don't know what's worth it. I wrote in my last reply to my post what I envision for my end goal. I understand the journey is the ride. I will do a written list now. Thank you for suggesting that book i downloaded it from annas archive and read the first couple of chapters it definitely applies to me. I rely on women for validation.

Lots of work to be done, looking forward to learn more from you. I will be posting on some tribe my progress and come back here for feedback

From RP, I like Uncle Vas ( I want to get into exploring women's deepest kinks). Whisper, itiswritten and humansockpuppet are my favorites. I hope one day I become that guy to other dudes whom I can inspire. I used to read theredarchive.com and take things literally but now I understand what you mean, to judge the information and test shit out and come back here.

Thank you for taking the time for that well thought reply. Enough talk from me. Time for action

Not a problem. You've got a better head on your shoulders than you maybe giving yourself credit. You don't need our permission or approval to pursue your goals, only a little encouragement, confirmation, and occasional direction. I'm confident that you'll achieve everything you focus yourself upon doing. Good luck in all you do and god speed on your journey.

@carnold03 Just noticed your message. Interestingly, I unconsciously did what you were saying. My family runs a business and I just have been focusing on small aspects of that I've neglected over the years. My drive throughout my life was always to be elite. That video is spot on. I don't want to chase the mirage. Porn, substances leave me feeling empty.Chasing women is not best ROI.

Honestly, I just don't know what's worth it. I wrote in my last reply to my post what I envision for my end goal. I understand the journey is the ride. I will do a written list now. Thank you for suggesting that book i downloaded it from annas archive and read the first couple of chapters it definitely applies to me. I rely on women for validation.

Lots of work to be done, looking forward to learn more from you. I will be posting on some tribe my progress and come back here for feedback

From RP, I like Uncle Vas ( I want to get into exploring women's deepest kinks). Whisper, itiswritten and humansockpuppet are my favorites. I hope one day I become that guy to other dudes whom I can inspire. I used to read theredarchive.com and take things literally but now I understand what you mean, to judge the information and test shit out and come back here.

Thank you for taking the time for that well thought reply. Enough talk from me. Time for action