@Kloi

...scrutinize the media targeted at females, as well as males. From what I've observed, girls are being taught to be males with female genitalia in much the same ways boys are regarded as being dysfunctional females with male genitalia.

This is a pretty spot on analysis of what I see happening. Women are taught to act like "toxic" men and boys aren't raised to become men anymore.

History has shown repeatedly that it's retarded for individuals to expect that those who profit from their exploitation would willingly provide the education or knowledge that might enable them to recognize they're being exploited, let alone protect themselves from it.

I can only pray that guys who achieve my bleak understanding possess faith such that they don't become black pilled when they realize that simply because a female will never shed themselves of their childhood dreams of being the bride at a wedding, that it doesn't necessarily mean that she'll wholly commit to being any man's wife, or mother to their future children with any priority. Spiritually lobotomized and spiritually demoralized females are addicted to attention like a drug fiend is to cocaine or heroine, or a social media user to tiktok or twitter. There are few times a woman will receive the sort of adulation as when she's the bride at a wedding, or having delivered a baby, but she seldom receives any for fulfilling her obligations and responsibilities.

Leftover women are indeed, real.

I think I'm beginning to fully experience the statement, women are like water, they take the shape of the vessel they're in. The vessel refers to your frame.

Your life. As long as you stay true to yourself, your core principles and she continously wants to be with you, she'll adapt to you or you will leave her behind.

Of course some women just aren't going to be able to keep up. Naturally, it's your job as a vessel for life, to take on new water, if the previous water no longer fills you up.

Women naturally want to follow a strong leader. A strong leader can take a quiet, shy girl and make her outgoing. He can take an EGirl and turn her into a tomboy. A strong leader can take the most confident and independent woman out there and break her down to the point she's selling her soul. As long as you still hold her attention.

No this does not mean you can turn a ho into a housewife. Hos are women, broken beyond repair.

What triggered this line of thought is, right before my eyes, I'm watching my girl blossom into the woman I've wanted for some time. It's not that she wasn't enough to catch my attention before, it's the fact as I improve, she knows inherently that she needs to too. Otherwise, I'll be forced to leave her behind.

I'll be honest. This is the first time in my life I've had a woman actually put in effort to elevate herself. In the past it was always empty promises.

Instead of leaving these women as I should have when they no longer quench my thirst. I stuck around. Getting used to the lack of water, my vessel shrunk Continuing to shrink until the water overflowed and I no longer served a purpose for them.

Instead leaving these women when I damn well knew I should. I allowed their frame to overpower mine. Sinking lower and lower to get on their level. It's in my experience women always gravitate lower then men. Just waiting for one to come pick them back up.

Maybe this isn't what was meant by this statement but it's what it means to me, tonight.