@thespectator

Managing a slutty girl

I'm traveling/living abroad and pulled my hottest girl yet 2 months ago. I see her every 1-2 weeks, we fuck every time. This 22yo girl has more red flags than a Chinese military parade so I know I shouldn't try to LTR her:

• Only likes rough sex, doesn't like to cuddle
• Does erotic/tied up photos
• Has a tongue piercing and a small tattoo on her chest
• Openly talks about sleeping with other guys, agreed when I said she's going through a slut phase
• Says she has "sex tapes"
• Told me a dude she was staying with in a foreign country (who cheated on his fiancée with her) is coming to visit her in a few months
• met up with a wealthy dude who paid for a trip but didn't fuck him because he was beta

I'm also pretty sure she has assburgers and there's worse shit she hasn't told me yet.

My question is how to make her obsessed with me because I want to keep this going as long as possible. She barely texts and responds slow, says she's busy for most days, but always shows up.

I only text for logistics. Usually, we meet for drinks and then go back to my place and she spends the night. Last time I took her on a trip out of town for the weekend.

I'm still meeting other girls regularly. Am I right in thinking the only answer here is to keep doing what you're doing, fuck her good, and find other girls to get her off my mind?

She's not mine it's just my turn type of shit? Any other advice? Maybe I'm catching oneitis here

Unless you're a pimp, it's really not possible nor in the best interests of your mental health to invest into managing a whore.

You probably have developed one-itis, but hopefully you're expressed awareness is enough to get you to tamp it down and reign it in. Beyond that, it doesn't read like anything I could chime in would help. Keep treating her the way you have thus far. As long as you maintain a heavy wallet and heavy balls, she'll likely always be down to f%$k. She counts on that consistency, so keep banging away.

When the time comes and you decide to stop riding the dragon, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.