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Extremely exhausted and burnt out. How to recover?
Here are some of the things going on in my life that have caused too much stress for me:
My mom is v sick and she is also v old school so has lot of inertia for medicines etc which requires me having to convince her 5x more.
I run a startup since 3 years, it hasn’t been doing v well. Considering shutting it down.
My wife got v sick last two weeks because we had to go through abortion (unplanned)
I have gained about 18kgs in last 3 years, that isn’t helping either
my dad seems to be too egoistic when interacting with me, intentionally doing the opposite & triggering me
- I’ve been landlocked in a city with over 20 million people, pollution and no breathing space. I’m frustrated.
I need some ideas for what can help feel happier & get better.
That's definitely a rough situation. It reads like you could use some assistance or direction from those who've overcome similar situation, so I hope others who've overcome similar situations are willing to chime in with useful input.
If you need #exercise plans, just click the hashtag for some simple ones to consider I think there are a few books in there as well. Even considering something as simple as putting together a healthier diet and walking to clear your head should help. Stay strong.
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@joyboy because it's not a fine line
I don't think you understand
@Vermillion-Rx isn’t that exactly what I meant by learning the fine line to not cross lol. Seems like you didn’t understand what I was saying
@mattyanon I called him Diet Breitbart years ago when that was still a relevant publication
I wasn't there
There are some things we are not going to be able to teach you
You are going to have to learn to read the room
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@Vermillion-Rx from what I could tell you wanted me to go back and try with the girl again
True but at the same time I don't want to come off socially uncalibrated and end up getting removed from the bar
You have no idea what I'm talking about then
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Now that I think about it she didn’t seem uncomfortable or anything like That, her body language was kind of positive if anything cause she was facing me directly and w strong eye contact so it should’ve been worth another try
@Vermillion-Rx True but at the same time I don’t want to come off socially uncalibrated and end up getting removed from the bar for harassment or some crazy shit like That so there’s a fine line to walk
You were right about the bike being a boost btw I’ve had so many interactions with girls just cause of it, like girls yelling “I like your bike” while I’m sitting on it or waving at me from there cars or stuff like that. Still trying to figure out how capitalize on those opportunities though