@Lionsmane8 my point was not to offend or something but push the topic of sorrying. Sometimes, could be a lot even - matter of level of understanding - sorry is heard as weakness. Similar as when men don't have resources to provide with something, is heard literally. It is as sales. Stupid, but worth to think about , in my opinion.

My point of view, harem or one girl, always it is matter of options. If there is a scarcity, it will backfire. Abundance mindset helps a lot.

Regarding west or east, I am referring to basic instincts. Purse, resources are of course important, but more important is the level of our lives and how we are working with our framework and our happiness. That is why not all women want billionares etc., but a guy who have goals in life, interests, can provide basic stuff, safety, and don't pedastalize women. Ambundance is not money only, therfor a lot of billionares are toi tired to live fully, lonely, bored etc. We all have decisions, sacrifices, sometimes too much, but that is a learning process.

Hope not too long. Peace out.

@Lionsmane8 It also requires practice. A few weeks ago I made the point of the brain being a super computer that perfects different pattern recognition models. You train it by seeing, failing and succeeding. The early pick up artists knew this and it’s still common advice to practice with many women. But beware, different stages of relationships require different models.

If you practice opening a lot, you get good at that. If you practice getting laid a lot you get good at that. If you practice managing multiple women, you get good at that. But then if you go into a more long term relationship, you are not good at that, likely. So it requires intense thinking sometimes and advice from others. It also requires the right mindset. You should always be cool, calm and collected. You can prevent a lot of mistakes by taking the time to think. Another good way of thinking about it is to speak less than you want to. It’s advice from married red pill (very long term relationships), they say “shut the fuck up”. It means, you should err on the side of mystery as that puts you in the know and her not. Talk is cheap. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t speak obviously, what I’m saying is, sometimes it’s better not to say some stuff. In MRP it sometimes actually means to not speak, but that’s not your situation.

Very important for controlling situations is to never lose your temper. Even when you are angry. Be in control of your emotions, you can’t control hers, but if she sees you are in control of yours, you steady her storm. You are not affected.

Try to actively read her expressions when she’s emotional, give your brain the training to recognize emotions. Then one day your responses become automatic. Just do the right responses over and over and it becomes second nature. Rian stone says that for example that he does not have to be actively red pill, he just is. That’s where you wanna be.