The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
2d ago TheRedPill
UPDATE: thanks for all the help guys, I fucked the new girl like 5 times in 3 days, and it was great and all. But I felt like I really wasn't honest with myself and in a moment of impulse, I broke up with my LTR. I felt like it was all done in a rush, leading to a new post with a new question. I'm just in a really confused state right now, and don't know what's good for me and my life. It's like a 50/50 and I really want to make the most optimal/correct decision for my life (strategically and for the future). Please refer new post for context
1w ago TheRedPill
1w ago TheRedPill
have a tough time making a decision on my own side.
Stop right there.
You are making long term life decisions based on your feelings. This is going to ruin your life sooner or later.
We sit here day in and day out showing all sorts of evidence about female hypergamy, and you are doing exactly that right now.
You do not belong here.
With that said, the right thing to do is to stay loyal to the woman who has been loyal to you. If she gained 30+ pounds then you have cause to talk to her about it. Attraction is not everything, although important.
do i have an option to “have my cake and eat it too”?
Yes. But if you're looking for permission to cheat then you are a moron. Anyone can cheat. You just don't do it. If she were some chick you were banging then all bets are off. I won't shame you, but I have no respect for cheaters.
Unless you have an agreed upon open relationship, then do NOT cheat.
Verdict: Break up with this woman immediately. She does not deserve to be fucked over by the likes of you.
Community Note: This user is starting to look more like a woman from Reddit coming here to see if us Red Pill losers support cheating when it's men doing it. I have seen posts like this before. I'm almost always right.
Read More@SwarmShawarma really does not sound complicated bro.
I wish everyone would start the con convo stating age of all protagonists.
1w ago TheRedPill
@lalola0101 Think about it like a woman would cool headedly and selfishly before anything else -is the monkey branch worth it?
Do you see yourself being happy for the rest of your life with the current girlfriend? If not then its all open, if so then be very circumspect.
Next, would the monkey branch one be a serious long term girl friend or a bit of fun?
Is it worth investigating more?
If so, what would a woman do? -Make dam sure the second branch looked sound before letting go of the first.