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@Initial-Glove Reddit is full of the bottom of the barrel of humanity lol. Lots of groupthink too, yeah. It's very bad. I got banned for advising someone to appear less gay on their hinge profile if they wanted to attract matches. I stand by it being good and genuine advice. This guy looked extremely gay for a purported straight man looking to attract women.
Liberalism really is a mental disorder. It also manifests itself physically based on what I've seen XD I did talk to two dudes who were cool, both "moderates" but now I'm banned :(
@NeoSpartan lol yes. Whoever the story is about, they attack that person's whole race or sex.
The name calling and stuff doesnt bother me either. I dont care. Buncha dumbasses with no lives, always following the crowd.
Occasionally I'll find a couple of folks to have an actual conversation with but rarely. Lots of brainwashed folks on there. Xiden supporters.
@Initial-Glove cow molesters? That is not one I've heard before, did spend a little time on reddit recently before I got banned from there after a few days. They mostly seem to bitch about how entitled we are or something. I take it all as a compliment personally XD
@carnold03 as one guy I conversed with in that thread-- the only one with logic-- he put a ring on it. He gave her a name and a home.
Would a guy her age do that? What about any of the guys on the streets? No?
Oh god. I argue on there a lot. Stupid ass dumbasses comment on there, including me. They hate hearing the truth about themselves and most stories are terrible. BW twerking, BM raping, WW being fat and stupid, WM being cow molesters...
@Zavss yeah, that’s fine. But others dudes may not have as many options, you know? Especially after all the qualities you have to get for just to end up with a half-decent person these days… Just things to think about. Not trying to pressure anyone into marriage who doesn’t want it, of course.
Different states have different laws. Sometimes a pre nup cannot save you.
Getting the law involved in ones personal relationship is just such a shitty idea.
It’s one of those things society does to diminish the individual. Shame is brought to you if you don’t do what society does.
And women are more heavily influenced by societal pressure then men. I’d say 30% more.
Being the guy I am, If the girl finds the relationship meaningless without a material ring on her finger to show random people.
Then that’s fine and I live my life and find more girls.
@carnold03 Hubby, who’s an attorney, said that judges can’t just throw legally enforceable documents out on a whim; if they can dismiss the prenup, it’s on your attorney for failing to write it well, or you can appeal to a higher court if your judge is abusing his power.
Everyone should vet thoroughly, certainly. You just can’t stay vetting forever…I think a lot of good potential “forever” partners expect marriage at some point, if only as a otherwise meaningless sign of commitment. It’s like a dad hug and a kiss on the forehead to say “Of course I won’t dump you. You can have the fairytale ending you want.” (Though, statistically it’s more likely to end in divorce than not.) Even if you do find a woman who doesn’t want to be married, others will attempt to pressure her into it and encourage her to leave you if you don’t marry her. Proposing a prenup when she starts getting antsy about it and observing her response at least provides some data about whether or not she feels entitled to your money and possessions just because she’s a woman.
I was having this ridiculous argument with this woman online (because evidently I ignored some specific advice against doing that) who insisted that women deserve their half of everything that their ex-husbands worked for because they stay at home and raise the kids and don’t save up for retirement. I told her there’s nothing stopping women from putting their kids in day care and working and making their own money anymore, but she just couldn’t accept that as a rebuttal and resorted to ad hominem attacks.
But like, that’s the whole point of marriage: to stay together and invest in each other and the family you create together. Traditional gender roles work because they’re based on for what either gender is better suited. Like that article says, fucking with them has dire consequences.Read More