@MiracleAligner

How to safely end relationship with severe BPD girl

She is extermely emotionally unstable. Everytime we have a fight she goes into a psychotic episode, ive never seen a person like this. Its a vey delicate situation because these people are dangerous, to themselves first but also they are prone to doing crazy shit and i dont want this thing from my past haunting me for the rest of my life. I've postponed the breakup for so long because i wanted to somehow make it right and have a amicable closure, unfortunately it seems that is not happening. Lately the relationship has turned abusive and im taking it like a chump, just being nice to her while trying to find a strategic way out, but i havent been able to. She lives with me so that makes things harder, i genuinely feel like the only way out is moving out and somehow creating a situation where she cant live with me anymore, then slowly let this all fade away. I repeat, sitting her down and beaking up is not an option, ive already tried this several times before and the aneurysm she gets into makes me take a step back, i genuinely am scared for her mental health but also for my security. I need a strategic way out and im asking for your help here

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@Chantfire

thanks this was insightful, I got a copy of Vox day's Sigma Game. And Master V by Doc Love, I'll have a look at them when I'm done with is thread. Rian Stone feels like a lengthy read but I'll take what I can from him. I have been searching up and reading a lot of books on Christian marriages and I think your suggestion about me making more friends with other married Christians men sounds like a good idea. Side note I have a physical copy of the art of war and I take it with me its also got good material on leadership I take its principles mix them with doc love's system and it works wonders. Although we don't always agree on everything my marriage so far is going well. We have a daily prayer sessions together, it's a tradition now. I think my enquiry was cause some of the RP material I've read talks a bit about how woman turn men beta or unconsciously take over the leadership role. Subsequently I've been agreeing with a lot of my wife's ideas and then taking the lead on making things happen. I guess for a moment, I felt like I was slipping into a beta frame. Without taking too much of your time, I need a few more material on fatherhood. Plus I've been thinking about getting a gun. I need some advice before I get it.

That definitely reads as challenging, but you already know where to find the paladin press collection. While the info maybe old as it'll reference analog and earlier digital technologies, you'll find few better writers in regards to subjects related to self defense than those madmen, short of being a traumatized veteran of a combat arm of the military who still hears the trees speaking Vietnamese, or some vaxtarded NPC who hears the whir of electric motors above them when outdoors.

Again, congrats, and best of luck to you.

@carnold03 thanks this was insightful, I got a copy of Vox day's Sigma Game. And Master V by Doc Love, I'll have a look at them when I'm done with is thread. Rian Stone feels like a lengthy read but I'll take what I can from him. I have been searching up and reading a lot of books on Christian marriages and I think your suggestion about me making more friends with other married Christians men sounds like a good idea. Side note I have a physical copy of the art of war and I take it with me its also got good material on leadership I take its principles mix them with doc love's system and it works wonders. Although we don't always agree on everything my marriage so far is going well. We have a daily prayer sessions together, it's a tradition now. I think my enquiry was cause some of the RP material I've read talks a bit about how woman turn men beta or unconsciously take over the leadership role. Subsequently I've been agreeing with a lot of my wife's ideas and then taking the lead on making things happen. I guess for a moment, I felt like I was slipping into a beta frame. Without taking too much of your time, I need a few more material on fatherhood. Plus I've been thinking about getting a gun. I need some advice before I get it.

@Chantfire

I've got the system, down. I always refer to the truth triangle and bottom line factors. My wife's pregnant, I think her hormones are a bit over the place. Maybe I need something for mental health rather than LTR material.

Yea, we're all told that a females hormones, psychology, or both can make them predictably unpredictable, but there actually are some apps for that. Regardless, congrats, if Doc Love was still around, I'm sure he'd be glad to know that The System: The Dating Dictionary has been helpful for you.

Make time to build yourself a local network of faithful Christian married men, keep irreligious and syncretic people at a distance, build a list of married red pill writers, a family media library, and consider developing an AI agent to give you real time support when we're unavailable to you. I would suggest the late Doc Love's follow-up mastery series, but only one of seven volumes is on sites like libgen. As the price of each volume is $100, I'm not encouraging any guy to fork out for material they can't freely examine before making that kind of financial commitment.

Married men in the past have suggested Athol Kay. Though, something to be aware of is that many social media whores like Rian Stone, another red pill writer, are rarely capable of making a point without being queer making a gossipy info dump on someone they believe maybe more prominent in the algorithm environment than themselves. However, if you're a faithful Christian who feels they can handle blunt truths, you may find Vox Day's Sigma Game and Alpha Game, more worthwhile reads. If homeschooling is something you've been working to realize, apply the same scrutiny there as you've done with red pill writers.

Anyway, I've taken up enough of your time. I'm confident that you'll be able to pick solid sources for yourself. Remember to check out a writers youtube video archives, blogs, pirated ebooks to study their work, their values, their ethics, and other freely available media. If you find any writers work to be beneficial in realizing your goals, invest into getting physical copies of their books for your library. If Amazon can edit ebooks after purchase and download, anyone can. Best of luck to ya and congrats.