@Bozza I love how you went meta on the topic in order to avoid triggering her being defensive or quibbling over what constitutes a "high value woman". Kudos!

Another aspect to HVW paradigm is the fact that women lose their value with age and in the past, they sold it to men as a package deal sort of like a mobile phone plan where you have to keep a phone for 3 years. We locked in to a young woman to get kids and a lifetime companion who remembered us in our youth. I make photo albums of when my wife and I started dating, our child's first years, and so on. At the age of 50, what's the point of hitching up with someone who, even if she's still hot, will hit the wall within a few years?

I was SAVED from a fate worse than death when I fell head-over-heels for a 50 year old woman and she annoyed me until I dumped her. She was a good attorney though so I referred a friend to her 5 years later and I asked what she looked like and he described her as a "grandmother" meaning she had aged about 20 years in the course of 5. What motivation is there for a smart man to commit his lifetime accumulation to a relative stranger whose going to hit the wall in 5 to 10 years?

Jeff Bezos is an idiot.

@Redpillray

worth it to LTR American girls

A) women are women, anywhere you go. They all have the same instincts. Different cultures may suppress or encourage the worst of those instincts, but women are still women. AWALT. (oversimplifying for brevity)

B) LTRs must be earned by the woman. If a woman is treating you right, and you enjoy her company, and she adds value to your life beyond just a hole to fuck, then why not keep her around?

But, I believe if any girl (American or not) believes she’s maximized her hypergamy with you (AF not BB), she’ll be a joy to have around and her new-agey cultural ideologies will be naturally mitigated.

This is true. Other men will be invisible to her. The challenge is maintaining this. No one can be 100% "on" 100% of the time, and women naturally grow bored after a while (7 year ache or 7 year itch).

If you wish to navigate this, I highly recommend checking out the sidebar at the Married Red Pill subreddit, especially Athol Kay's book.

Speaking as a guy who as of next month will have been married 18 years, and has saved the marriage partly by Red Pill teachings, let me advise as strongly as possible:

don't get married!

Don't even co-habitate, especially if your state has common law marriage.

And again, the LTR shouldn't be your goal as the man; getting sex is your goal. If a woman earns that kind of upgrade, then it's up to you if you're willing to grant it.