@slutmagazine Thanks for your advice and perspective. That first paragraph makes total sense. I’m starting to grasp a little better the idea of “keeping frame” which is so easy to lose in an LTR (for me at least). It’s so easy when you’re out of an LTR or are monk mode but women have this nature to slowly and covertly try and make you submit to them, it’s a weird dance. Your last paragraph is on point too, although we might differ on men’s numbers but I can see how it definitely doesn’t hurt to keep it low and drama free. For a man I feel like numbers are much less risky and damaging then for a female. But I digress, and again I appreciate the feedback it’s given me a lot to think about and reevaluate.

Maybe I’ll reconsider this one extremely religious and Christian girl who said to me she was saving herself for marriage “for someone she felt God led her to” and I couldn’t find a blemish about..she was definitely a unicorn. She and I parted ways for a couple years (different lifestyles/jobs) but she cared more ab my soul status and important life decisions more than any woman I ever came across. I’ve thought ab a woman with those qualities for two years and no one has been close to it. Shit, guess I’m just playing myself.

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By having money become synonymous with status and power, which women are attracted to, women become attracted to money.

No, but that's an interesting point in itself.

Class society, ours as an example, mostly holds the idea of wealth in contempt, having wealth is a moral blight. And so when a woman is attracted to the byproducts of wealth (as I don't believe a woman can hold the concepts of wealth and it's constituent parts in her mind at the same time), society holds her in contempt by the same standard, but it is only her natural instinct to be drawn towards someone who has plenty. And that's the key, money is only a measurement of your 'plenty' the same way a litre is for water.

All that is to say, it is necessary that the male valued his creation of wealth for its own sake before the value of women in order for anything to claim it had any value in the first place. The idea that the accumulation of wealth is nothing but that of a birds performative mating ritual only works to diminish man himself and the wealth and value he has created.

The argument against the sex industry practically writes itself from there.