One observation from the moment of "Vicky Christina Barcelona" I have given to a tourist that came for a few weeks to the UK, can't leave my head.

A girl that wasn't that much into girls (claims for most part based on 'she said'), in the end came from a sole anal penetration by another girl.

It was intense few weeks fuelled by chicks freaking out, getting jealous, having fun nonsexually that left my nervous system numbed or in a state of problem management rather than milking it 100% (and that means they have also lost on my creativity).

But unlike in a film there was no raised voices, but rather emotions boiling under thin layer of skin.

It culminated on the last meeting, when guest knew she won't meet us again.

In this "by far the best" moment, when the curtain came fully down I lost my hard worked on momentum. After 15minutes all I was doing was playing with the front side, while my friend was working on the back end using a strapon.

I thought that the fun will finish shortly, since the time was limited and no more than 1h has left now and for a double whamy I needed clear my mind.

I can't say what happened, but it went on for long enough and the guest has arrived.

I was amused surprised, my friend was a bit off, since the anal was unplanned or the strapon was too long and it pulled out some smell... out of a cleanshaven and hygien8c guest.

Guest enjoyed to be dominated by me; despite all the quiet drama over few weeks when girls were in the same place, it seems she has also accepted that she will be dominated by a nominated girl and maybe even enjoyed it more

Maybe being dominated by a dom's petite girl that is also dominated, was like being super_submissive.

Interesting details are that added to my amusement:

Athough both girls behaved feminine, guest was much more dominant under the surface - this coming from her years of experience of managing mixed teams in mid to big corpos.

I have a PIC of them two on beach. I have never noticed that with a naked eye, but guest is like 2.5 times bigger than my friend {let's say by volume). More muscly from playing sports for years, but also a lot taller.

I forgot about this Almodovar film. I just remembered about it as I plan to condition my fwb's friend into sexual mood before I arrive for dinner. And she has no clue how to start leading a girl into a sexual conversation on her own.

@Typo-MAGAshiv Never worked out what YOLO meant. Never bothered to google it. I think sometimes kids like to have their own language and I leave them to it. The only thing I won't stand for is being called "Bro" by a daughter. I always reply "Sis" and they find it funny and annoying in equal measure. It would appear that "bro" is now gender neutral and this upsets the right wing pedant in me.

How voluntary are most MGTOW monks? This is the big question about celibacy. I think in most cases celibacy lies on intersecting spectra of willingness and discomfort. When talking about normal men (say 80-90%). We all want sex and we can all obtain it, its just a case of the price point and the terms and conditions.

But yes, I think you are right, its best not to pollute the word incel. In my case I find myself thinking that if I do become celibate (and I have given it some thought) it will not be an entirely happy situation but it will set me free to be myself after 25 years of being a provider and father. The price will probably be worth paying for some years at least.

I can't escape the fact that even on the rare occasions when I have been the closest thing that I can get to being a a smooth manly Chad and seducing the pants of women and making them hopelessly willing to give themselves up to me (yeah I said rare occasions), I have only actually been doing what they wanted me to do. There is a performative component to succeeding with women, even when you make it look easy. Who wants to be an actor all the time, playing the role of some woman's leading man instead of being himself?