@Ill_Will7

First of all...

This is a damned good thread.

Here are some thoughts:

Is it natural for a man to live with a woman?

Yes, and it is ALSO natural for relationships to break down when one partner or the other is over it. Simple as.

It seems to be the most sure fire way to unhappiness and losing control/autonomy/sex in your life.

Agreed.

Do NOT give away your power. And by far the worst way to give away your power is to get married. The second worst (best?) way is to live together.

Being bound (in any way) to someone who runs the risk of doing you harm is a bad thing.

Has this all been one big lie to sell men that they NEED a women?

I don't think it is a lie, so much as a cultural shift over time.

Feminism empowered women to do all sorts of shit, and say things like "men need a woman, but women don't need no man" etc. And too many men fell for it.

This sort of mentality is only possible in societies in which there is safety and comfort. Once thigs go sideways, that foolishness is among the first things to cease.

Women should enjoy their privileges while they last. Because things are not looking so good.

Anytime I am with a girl for long enough for it to become "serious," is when I can start to feel myself slowly losing her attraction

Familiarity breeds contempt.

I am having a hard time seeing any use for them other than sex.

If you play your cards right, you can have more than this. Too many men fall into one of two camps:

1. Women are only for sex, or
2. Women are special creatures and we should protect them, etc.

Neither of these things need be true to YOU.

The ugly truth is this - YOU dictate what you will accept and what you will not. And you WILL have to keep running through women in order to get your basic needs met. And once you get that with a woman, her deepest instincts will be to want "change" for change's sake - one version of which is hypergamy.

The sooner we accept this, the better off we are in the long run. The short run is always a bitch.

And if that be the case, that their use is only sex, why in the fuck would I choose to live with them for a lifetime for what I can handle in 1.50 minutes?

Bullshit. Word around here is that it's closer to .5 seconds. Stop telling lies.

lol

Finally

When a woman puts an ultimatum to you, she is ending the relationship. You can stay with her, and she can stay with you, but that relationship as you know it is OVER.

What she is saying is this:

Give me what I want or I will go fuck someone who WILL give me what I want.

I cannot recall ever getting such a direct ultimatum, but I generally make it clear from the beginning what works and does not work for me.

If a woman does not know what to do with that information, then she is for recreational use only - by HER design and choice. So I enjoy it while it lasts.

Finally #2

Aside from our libido, I would argue that men's number one problem is oneitis. It is baked into our firmware, and it is arguably the hardest instinct to fight. And this make it our biggest vulnerability, and hence our number one enemy inside our heads.

Act accordingly.

@deeplydisturbed

I disagree with a guy alot and he diddnt pick up on one instant red flag: voice.

Actually I don't disagree with a guy in general that she is a trash, but he is not enough autistic about the analysis of this.

3:40 it is not disgusting that she left her husband to fuck the randoms (we need the sluts to train on) it would be disgusting if she have stayed. Disgusting is also that she will try to lie to another gulible dude about her past, and the whole story is about this gulible dude, she basically have Only One simp. She does him and other dudes a service (if he finds out and take an action, this way he might learn the lesson before a bada boom).

She was lying to her husband 100%, meaning fucking randos already.

Assuming she really didnt get the kids nor payout she has to be a proper trash.

She most likely is a lying psycho and these stories are not close to the reality.

Yes you can drive forward and be somewhat a good driver and suck at parking, especially if there is no parking where you can front park. It was unnecessary bs.

Summing up. Listening about the sick individuals too often and assuming this being average woman is not too healthy for a man.