why is it that women I date never want to do what I would like (like they don't want to commit or make any sacrifices to hang out, they only hang out when it's absolutely convenient for them etc.)? But i see other men in relationships where the woman fawns over them and will do anything for them with unwavering loyalty, in terms of fighting for the man's commitment and making sacrifices to always want to spend time with him etc.? I figure hypergamy probably plays a role to an extent but i see regular guys (guys that are not in some amazing physical shape etc.) that have this dynamic with their woman as well. My only thought is maybe there is some angle that these other regular guys have that has them in a lucky position. Like the woman they are with now got tired of running around the streets so has settled with them? (Also, apologies if this is not the correct place for question, I'm brand new here. Thank You)
Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.
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why is it that women I date never want to do what I would like (like they don't want to commit or make any sacrifices to hang out, they only hang out when it's absolutely convenient for them etc.)? But i see other men in relationships where the woman fawns over them and will do anything for them with unwavering loyalty, in terms of fighting for the man's commitment and making sacrifices to always want to spend time with him etc.? I figure hypergamy probably plays a role to an extent but i see regular guys (guys that are not in some amazing physical shape etc.) that have this dynamic with their woman as well. My only thought is maybe there is some angle that these other regular guys have that has them in a lucky position. Like the woman they are with now got tired of running around the streets so has settled with them? (Also, apologies if this is not the correct place for question, I'm brand new here. Thank You)
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