@Vermillion-Rx isn’t that exactly what I meant by learning the fine line to not cross lol. Seems like you didn’t understand what I was saying
@Vermillion-Rx from what I could tell you wanted me to go back and try with the girl again
Now that I think about it she didn’t seem uncomfortable or anything like That, her body language was kind of positive if anything cause she was facing me directly and w strong eye contact so it should’ve been worth another try
@Vermillion-Rx True but at the same time I don’t want to come off socially uncalibrated and end up getting removed from the bar for harassment or some crazy shit like That so there’s a fine line to walk
You were right about the bike being a boost btw I’ve had so many interactions with girls just cause of it, like girls yelling “I like your bike” while I’m sitting on it or waving at me from there cars or stuff like that. Still trying to figure out how capitalize on those opportunities though
@Vermillion-Rx it’s fine i don’t even thinks it’s worthy of going on there now that I read it back. It’s not really asking anything but just giving an update so it’s fine here
Things I’ll try to improve for next time:
stay in the interaction longer instead of letting it fizzle out
approach more girls
@vermillion-rx could you move the post to the forum with a field report flair
Got over the hurdle of drinking and just started doing it. I had a beer (tasted like rat piss) but it definitely helped get me out of my head. I befriended a guy ordering next to me and we stayed together the night pretty much.
We had our eyes on a pair of girls so I told him we should approach them somehow since they didn’t really know what they were doing on the dance floor either. This motherfucker had 2 shots and 4 beers but was still it scared to approach them so he said he would follow my lead so I said sure. So we started dancing towards them.
My approach was kinda dumb but I basically told her one of them that her dancing was kinda ass but mines was bad too so it’s ok. Then we just danced apart. I noticed she kept looking over at me after so not sure but I dipped a while after that. I still had a lot of fun though even though I had no idea how to dance and looked like a flailing retard for most of it. I feel like if I do this a couple more times I’ll get more confident.
Read More@Kloi No there not even my main complaint. It’s just one part of the things making me insecure but the main thing is my upbringing which made me socially stunted
@Vermillion-Rx Not being facially attractive, short, not charismatic/outgoing, etc.
Most people shoot their shot until something sticks.
Well i've been doing that to but nothing has stuck so it makes me feel like somethings wrong with me.
Do you do anything remotely cool like sports or guitar or some skill that anyone would respect? Or do you just coast by on the internet, anime and video games
I mean like i stated in a previous comment i have a few hobbies im passionate about, like motorbiking, boxing, calisthenics etc.