@Vermillion-Rx I want to succeed dude this was more so a vent post mixed with a field report. Notice how I didn’t post it in the main forum

@Vermillion-Rx well no getting more drunk would lower my inhibitions further I'm sure

@adam-l I think its more so the second one. I'm not that scared of rejection as I've cold approached and asked girls out before and didn't feel much of anything when they rejected me. I feel like I just don't know how to progress the interaction .

@joyboy

You have two problems.

First, you are terrified of rejection. That's ok. We all are.

Second, you don't have a blueprint of how flirting works.

Read up a bit. I would still suggest RooshV's Day Bang. This will give you an idea of the stages this thing goes through.

Then it's just a matter of getting yourself out there, on places where you can afford getting rejected. Let go of control, try to have fun playing the game, fuck or get rejected and find out why when you get home. Rinse and repeat.

@Vermillion-Rx I mean sure when you put it like that but idk man she could’ve just been using for a free ride. I didn’t ask cause I felt like she was gonna ghost me anyways if I got her number and texted her later since I didn’t feel like there was as much interest from her

@Typo-MAGAshiv I mean what’s to say she didn’t just want a free ride lol I’m sure that was entirely possible. she wasnt really flirting with me or showing any signs of attraction

@Vermillion-Rx no those two girls were different and happened after I went inside the bar. The girl asking for a ride happened to me while I was sitting outside. And I guess I should be more specific her gay friend actually asked for her… yeah my fault I should be super specific in the report so you guys have a clearer picture of the situation

@Vermillion-Rx dude you didn’t understand the situation I wasn’t taking her out. It was spontaneous read my other post. I guess I got caught off guard

@Typo-MAGAshiv No it wasn’t like a one on one ride type of thing, I was just hanging around in my local downtown last night and she came up to me w her friends ( some gay dudes).

They wanted to take a ride too but I said nah I’m only taking her, so I just took her around the block. She made some small talk while we were waiting at stoplights but I kind of muttered and didn’t say much since I was still processing that I had a cute girl hugging me super tight. Then she got off and the interaction fizzled out so I just kind of walked away to the bar