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Why would she have feelings of contempt for him. Also, if the man gives an ultimatum does that mean he has contempt for his woman?
While I can offer speculation on the matter, I'm not party to their relationship and disinterested in asking questions to find out more. However, regardless of the sex of the person giving it, threats and ultimatums are a clear expression of contempt and oftentimes a prelude to physical violence. "Verbal Judo: The Gentle Art of Persuasion" by the late Prof. George J. Thompson goes into greater detail on the gentle art of persuasion, read it.
Assuming she's a good looking gal who bathes regularly, she'd have more easily gotten him to keep his braces for a few weeks longer by sitting in his lap, swapping spit, and just giving him the doe eyes telling him, "Could you keep them for a little longer, for me, please? I really like how they feel when I kiss you." The erection would divert so much blood from his brain, he'd have said yes to giving her his kidney without a second thought.
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There are two types of ultimatum:
I have standards and values. I also have integrity. If you transgress against my values, I can no longer see you. I have self-worth and self-respect and live by my values, so if we are not a fit, we should not stay together.
- Mother FUCKER! Taking off your WHAAAATT! Those braces are staying on - or else I am AUDI!
Gf said she was breaking up with me if I go to my appointment to get my braces taken off tomorrow, what the fuck? She’s actually mad and being short with me because I didn’t cancel the appointment today. What the hell is happening?
You're finding out that your girlfriend harbors feelings of contempt for you. When a person gives you an ultimatum or threatens you, it's an expression of contempt. Whatever her mental state, this is a red flag for you to end the relationship. Tell your GF that she's given you a lot to think about and that you think you two should see other people before you put her txt, email and phone number on block.
Go to your appointment and get your braces taken off.