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If you have to ask an internet forum, you're probably not ready for a relationship.
Be wary of your "non-marriage" mentality. Every woman who wants to be in an exclusive relationship with you, will also want you to marry her at some point. You have to be ready to face tons of comfort and shit tests about that. She will suck your dick, then turn around and act as cold as ice...just to try and get that ring. She will try to build the relationship one step at a time, just to make you comfortable with higher levels of commitment - first it'll be meeting her friends, then her family, then living together, then getting a pet, and so on.
You have to be prepared to shut down those advances if you truly don't want them. Which means you also have to be prepared for her to fuck another guy, or walk away from your relationship. The third option, of course, is for you to be prepared to marry her (and all of the challenges that stem from that).
Your choice.
Read MoreSure, go for it if you want. It's an experience to learn from, if nothing else. There really isn't any guarantee against "bad things" happening. A virgin can get FOMO, and cheat on you, just like any experienced slut. She can turn out to be a bitch over time. Maybe she'll be too boring in bed for you in the long run. Maybe you'll go overly beta through a thousand concessions. There are a thousand things that can potentially make it a shit experience eventually. What matters is how you deal with stuff if/when it happens. I've failed, done some cringe stuff, picked some wrong women etc. It's all good. As long as you didn't marry her, buy a place together, or get her pregnant you can always bail fairly easily.
Makes you wonder who the Father might be...
Some Tyrone or Chad that gave her the tingles and then dropped her the second she announced she was pregnant?
It also appears she is holding a vape in her right hand, and who knows what she is loading it with that will affect that baby girl she is expecting.
I'll respond when I have a better opportunity, that being said exclusivity should always be a step before a relationship
That way you can vet a woman before you attach a label and she still has something to lose.
Guys don't say it much since so many men just go from fucking to "what are we?" And immediately fold into a label.
Whatever you do, understand that no-label exclusive dating can and should be a step before an actual label or official relationship because you can see how she actually behaves with rules and standards and if she stops respecting you as much cause she thinks she's got you hooked.
A lot of men skip mere exclusivity between casual plating/FWB and a relationship status, you shouldn't skip it if you're serious about vetting more. It's an olive branch per se if you want more time to vet without a solid woman getting anxious and breaking but without folding your power or labels away.
Also, an LTR is about two years of dating. Getting into a relationship in the first place doesn't make it an LTR. Long term relationship means long term. You can't possibly know if a relationship will be long term merely by getting into a relationship.
It's a frequently misused acronym on here. Should just be "relationship" if referring to a new relationship.
Read MoreNice to read some guy doing well, for a change :)
Seeing where you come from, this is a great chance to gather experience. As long as you don't get her pregnant, I don't see you have something to lose, both by keeping her around and by LTRing her.
