Yesterday went out with a group of friends and my ex from 10 years was there. She was laughing at all my jokes, had the puppy eyes look so I texted her today to meetup to watch a movie together, she said who is coming. I told her us two. 3 if you count the neighbor's dog. We entered the flat, we talked for a minute and then i put on the movie but there was no kino during that time. THen during the movie, i out my hand around her and rested my head on hers.

While watching the movie, went for the first kiss but she moved away her face. Shoe moved a bit away and after a while I went again ( I thought it was ASD). We kissed for a bit and then she said i don't feel it's right (I think i should have agreed and amplified but honestly i still don't know what i should have done else) so I stopped and then after that I tried to reinitiate and we kissed for even logner so then i slowly started to caress tit and she was surprised but I felt like she liked it but she moved away. After the movie we started talking about how are things as it was years since we have seen each other. She is a shy person and it took her an hour to articulate that she doesn't want to see anyone now, she doesn't know my intentions and let's just be friends. I don't know what doesnt know my intentions means. I'm not robbing a bank. I just wanna fuck and have fun while we're together.

I feel so good that I tried. I'm not pissed off but I'm proud that I tried. It's been years since I tried something. I want to know where I was lacking. My next aim is to get comfortable getting rejected a i have a deep fear of rejection. So I hve to force myself to approach and talk to women even though I know it will feel uncomfortable for the first approaches.