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At 34, she should have been thankful that a man who met her initial standards wanted to see her at all. Yet this one had the audacity to complain that a movie on his couch wasn’t enough effort for a first date with her.
She should have demanded that extra effort when she was 10 years younger instead of watching movies on Chad’s couch. Now she can take herself dancing.
She’s at least a thousand times better than the fat poor single moms her age whose standards are at least as high as hers. I’ll give her that.
Notice how at one point, one of the texts reads:
Cost of living is rising everywhere, and it's even harder when you have all those expenses on just one wage.
She words this in a specific manner to imply she wants to pool incomes and split bills, yet her other reels show how utterly repulsed she is at the idea of splitting the bill on a date. Ergo, when she talks about how hard it is to live on one income, she's not longing for a relationship where partners combine their incomes to build each other up, she's picturing a one-directional flow of money where the man is a sentient wallet.
The man that fits her standards is a sugar daddy. But she also wants a wedding, so it has to be a sugar daddy that, some brain-dead reason, wants to marry her and lose his financial leverage in the relationship. Of course she's struggling to find a man, she's looking for a unique combination of rich, stupid, and comically naive.
Read MoreA useless failure of a woman.
It's sad really. 100 years ago, some guy would have got her as a wife at 18, she wouldn't have had the boss babe lifestyle, excessive luxuries, modern convenience, and social media to distract her from her duties at home.
There are millions of other women in these lonely holding patterns, and it will get worse before it gets better.
@redpillschool I can't get on with wifi. At all.
Using mobile data now, but I don't have the hours of free time I did this morning to experiment with the site to see if everything is working correctly and to reply to shit going back to last week.
The grocery store.
If I was ever single again, and felt like dating, I would look there.
If you have enough skill to either ask some good food related questions or give advice on preparing dishes, you won't go hungry as she might feed you or you feed her.
up is cheating but where is that line? Is accepting birthday wishes cheating?
no
Should I be having hard boundaries for this? Im not sure where to set the boundaries for these kind of things as there are 2 ways to look at it. One is that she replies with a harmless "Thank You" and thats that no harm no foul
right
but we all know when we reach out to a girl after a while its never with pure innocent intent and its never for "being nice" and if she does reply we do think that we have a shot with her but also she should not reply at all which is the more respectful option and one that I would prefer.
no ongoing convo beyond that
Now I dont know if I am being a bitch about this but I feel that I should have very high standards for an LTR. For context this girl has been very respectful so far, does not entertain other guys at all and has a strong belief that you should not be talking to your former partners/hookups. She also has a low n-count (3 including me)
3 inc you? unlikely.
and we both are in our early 20s. So my 2 questions are as follows :
1) How do I set boundaries for events like these which are so much in the gray
Tell her..... "it's not ok to have an ongoing convo with an ex."
2) Should I end things and consider this cheating if her ex does hit up and she does end up replying
Depends. If it's low key "not interested" replies, fine. Actual convo: not fine.
She won't agree....... she will consider it all totally fine, even up to him sliding his dick back into her.
Honestly...... if this is an issue for you, an LTR isn't for you.
Read More@Bozza You can have the tren, my friend. I have never had a desire to try it, and at my age, overall health is more important. My background is in powerlifting, and even enhanced lifters I knew kept things pretty basic. Tren wasn't common. I've heard it is quite effective, though.
Men paying for everything is so 1950's. I thought Feminists didn't want to go back to the gender roles of the 1950's.
