I 19M have been finding it hard to maintain consistency in the good habits like: gym, studying,watching old noirs. There are certain elements I'd attribute to my chronic downfall -Watching porn and masturbating -Comparing myself on social media -Eating junk Everytime I get blocked by a girl some questions ring around my head I did everything right but how did it end ? I didn't chase, I didn't give compliments. It makes me hate women how hypergamous they are that's the only reason I can justify their blocking me from irl aswell as socials. I've been posting 2-3 times a week on socials to grab some connections from there. It's slow but it's minimal. I am short I am skinny and I have $0 to my name. I am already working on the skinny part but the rest for now I can't control. I'm in a major phase of my life where I have to select to study locally or abroad. The last 2 weeks I only hit 1-2 times gym, fapped like 20-30 times maybe even more ate junk and watched depressing blackpill edits. I wanna know Is there any hope for a 5'7 brown guy if he fixes himself. I can't bare to trust women anymore I just want sex from them that's all I can't think of them normally anymore. Questions How do I become emotionally invincible to ghosting and blocking? Would I have a chance in going for "my type" if I increase my smv ? Should I just delete social media and go ghost would it guarantee some sort of improvement then current? How do you recover out of doom mindset? Thanks ?? in advance

Fielding_pissed_off_dms1: long story short, men are consistent in what they want regardless of their own age - a fertile woman without a lot of built up baggage. Women just fail to offer that as they get older. And without that, there is no point to a relationship for many men.

Women of course are also consistent, but in a different way: they want a man that they regard as superior to themselves. But become increasingly unable to obtain such as they get older. Almost like there is a reason for that...

Almost like there is a prime window where both men and women can get what they want, but when one side piddlefarts around for a decade plus instead of using that window, it ruins everything for everyone.

Fielding_pissed_off_dms2: Oh man, she got tired of the bullshit from her fellow women in that second video. One can practically hear her think "Listen, bitch..." right as she made her reply to the complaints.

She has basically decided that, although she is attracted to you, you are not a keeper. She has decided you are plate only material and she will spin you until either you break or something better turns up to monkey branch to.

You ignored her, went drinking and spent money on valueless women. Those are big red flags that exclude a man from being a keeper in all but exceptional cases. Its not impossible that you could change her mind by stating an intent to turn over a new leaf and then doing so but usually once the magic is gone from a man, it can't be called back for a woman.

Spin her till something breaks is probably the easiest way to go. Try to save it if you really want her, all you have to lose is getting butt hurt. Next her if you just want to start over with a fresh girl. But do take on board the lesson. No amount of red pill will wipe out a red flag.