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Avoid people who don't want to hear the truth
They will always only ever surround themselves with enablers and people willing to lie to them, or worse, other people who don't even know they are just as wrong feeding off of each other indefinitely
They will come to you and when you tell them the truth they will hate you.
You will be in a constant catch 22 with these people because they will resent the truth if you give it and think you don't care about them if you learn to withhold your opinion and decline to help them
Their revulsion at the truth will keep them in the depths of inauthenticity and they will drag you into their wrath and delusions for bursting any pillars of their fantasies
3h ago Ask TRP Forum
How do I best this one factor?
It's been quite some time since I last used pmo ( porn,masturbation,orgasm), I have improved in certain aspects the exams I gave were good, I am objectively good looking now (above average), I lift somehow I started going out more and began to enjoy it,It wouldn't be wrong if I said I reinvented myself,I started feeling confident in my own body. I obtained some chest mass and shoulder mass too. I even held my own frame against my family. The only factor that is not in my control are the women. I somehow feel entitled as if all the progress I made was not for me. I resent it when they ghost me (irl and online) and go for someone else. After every cold approach I felt good and bad. My social circle is filled with guys who are worse than me. I keep on expanding to different social circles but maybe because of the conservativeness (I'm not from the west) I haven't found a decent one with women maybe I should really go to a cooking or yoga class ( is it desperate?). I know it feel kn my heart If I remain on social media trying to land women from there it'll wreck my mental peace. I just feel tired at this point. Sometimes I look at a woman and I wonder all the cute act the silly act she puts on up. Uglier people,Fatter people,Broke people have it better than me while I have lost the grit to do cold approaches and social circles are deadwater.
Read More@Typo-MAGAshiv I guess I am in good company. I was banned by Reddit for supporting tariffs on Canada and calling Canadians fucking pussies.
Unfortunately you just have to let them do what they're gonna do. You can't save them all
Everyone has heard of Captain save a hoe but honestly there are way too many captain save a bro situations that you shouldn't be getting yourself into
I would hate to see a friend off himself over a bitch but they will hate you for trying to save them.
I'm about close to losing this friend trying to help him. He asked me to keep certain women his ex was jealous of away from him and everything
Just to be mad at me for telling him the truth. In general avoid your compromised down bad friends. They will eventually disappoint you
After downloading HookupFuckApp, she thought it was for G-rated conversations and finding "the one."
Despite all the hot doods she's been fucking, it's like they just wanna fuck!
She can't even!
...Should I tell her, or should you?
...
Is anyone else wearied by the bottomless irony that the last few generations of women have been drowning in sex ed, and "relationship advice" and information up the wazoo-- and they're way more goddamned Smarter Than Any Man-- but they seem easier to take advantage of than ever? They're always at the mercy of some collection of Chads.
Like I tell every guy with the same problem, learn social skills and stop whining
This whole women thing really isn't hard if you just learn how to talk to people.
It's social skills all the way down and some of you will not accept that.
You don't even have to run any game if you are valuable enough and your social skills are great. Women just start gaming themselves at that point
Jesus dudes... Learn social skills already
Update 2:
We agreed to never exchange advice again
You cannot help down bad men. He got upset I spoke negatively of his ex, who he is determined to wait for as she samples cacks while he stays celibate for a relationship that is never coming back
You CANNOT help these men. That is the only reason I'm sharing this story. If you guys think you can red Knight your terminally down bad friends you are wrong
I knew this wouldn't work. I felt obligated to help him because he's been borderline suicidal about it. But beyond that I knew the end result would be agreeing not to talk about it
They will only hate you for being honest and they will seek bad advice because it feels good
Update on not red knighting your blue pill friends:
He's still too far gone. His ex girl is probably meeting and fucking other men as we speak because she wasn't fucking him for a few months and was going places without telling him where and he wasn't asking
She definitely isn't asexual and he is in denial that she will come back because her breakup spiel was "it's not you it's me and I need to work on myself first". Bro falls for literal womanese
I reached out to see if he's okay and he's texting female friends he knows apologizing for random shit and self destructing. I told him to stop and it and he just won't listen
Some men are just terminally down bad. You quite literally can't help them and it has deeply compromised them
Another valuable reason to limit red knighting your down bad blue pill friends, apart from them hating you for it, instead of being able to soberly see that you are actually the best help they have ever received, it's rather quite simple:
If it came down to it, they would absolutely throw you under the bus for mediocre pussy abusing them.
I have no doubt in my mind, after everything this friend experienced, dumped and all, that he would sacrifice me on the alter for mediocre snatch without a second thought
Don't red Knight your down bad friends. They are compromised as is. They would let a disrespectful bitch run your fate through their friendship than listen to any actual lifesaving advice
how do you avoid these emotionally draining situationships.
Simple. Don't have sex with a man without commitment. Ideally, that commitment is in the form of marriage. The men who want nothing serious will leave, and those that do want something serious will stay.
Also, universal advice for men and women is to not emotionally invest in someone who is not reciprocating. It certainly happens with many young men who are struggling just to get a date, though I think the same applies to women who need to filter out men who are only looking for sex.
Another thing, women who complain about men only wanting them for sex need to ask themselves what do they offer a man besides sex. Their answers should be things men actually want, not selling something to them that men are not asking for. And these women also need to determine what their selection criteria is for a man. If it is as superficial as him being tall and good looking, consider how many other women also want that same man. Would such a man want to commit to you? How realistic are you about what kind of man you should expect to want to commit to you?
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