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Good summary
it's also that women all lie to eachother (I don't think necessarily nefariously) about how just existing and barely doing adult things makes them "deserve" a man
No one but nice guys tells other men they deserve women just for being "nice"
Men are generally pretty willing to tell other men they have to do something right to get women
Women don't, they operate on a default deserving state and give each other dogshit "advice" and feedback
I don’t understand how so many women have so many beautiful, brilliant, amazing gal-pals unable to find men.
First of all, the average adult American woman is 5’3.5” tall and weights 172 pounds, which is borderline obese. She’s likely had more men inside her than a Yankee Stadium dugout, and she’s tens of thousands of dollars in debt. She doesn’t own a cookbook, and if she has a vacuum cleaner, it gets about as much use as her treadmill. Yet somehow every woman on social media is surrounded by countless stunning, high-quality women who just can’t seem to find a decent, regular guy.
The other side of the “surfeit of amazing women” idea is the alleged “absence of good men” trope. Yet even a fossil like me knows that any woman with a smart phone or an internet connection can scroll her way to a meetup with a man three points higher than she is.
Could it be that her “amazing” friends aren’t as amazing as she lets on, and that they don’t qualify for the men they want?
Read More@lurkerhasarisen I had meant the WAATGM forum at forums.red, not the subreddit.
But yeah, that's why I haven't created an alt. Fuck reddit.
Because you were usually so much kinder than me, I'd like to say I'm surprised that they got you too, but after the bullshit reason they used to suspend @polishknight I'm not even slightly surprised.
She only withdrew consent
Meme posted here related.
Here's my take on this and so-called "marital rape" or "duty sex is rape"
Uh, not sure what that has to do with this retroactively withdrawing consent situation.
Men ENJOY sex.
Hell yeah!
We don't have guilt about it.
Uh, well, sometimes. Religious hangups and other conditioning.
We don't INSIST it being transactional otherwise we'd be "sluts".
I'm kind of lost.
If we slept with someone we find unattractive, but we were drunk and they took advantage, we aren't traumatized provided there's no harm done (pregnancy or STD).
I shared a funny such story in this thread. Worst lay of my life.
For this reason, despite all the shit men go through for sex, we can at least enjoy it without shame.
I don't know. I've caught grief for harpooning that whale. I've felt guilty when I've found out I've been fucking another man's woman (though I had no way of knowing beforehand).
Women associate some benefit with sex as "consent" and a lack of benefit as "rape"
Depends. If it's beta sex, then yes. If it's alpha sex, then the sex is the benefit.
Lucy Craig, the Jane Doe at the root of this entire discussion, made it very clear that she thoroughly enjoyed that night and that the few boundaries she had were respected. She only withdrew consent when a) her reputation started to take a hit, and b) some slimeball lawyer told her she could make millions suing Cornell.
Read Morein response to [clip from "The Big Lebowski]
I don't see what any of this has to do with that clip!
Posting here rather than WAATGM
Or with anything at WAATGM. This looks like a continuation of a conversation I recall at an askTRP post.
Someone here said "I don't mind buying women dinner".
I don't recall seeing that one, and I'd want to see the entire context.
[the rest]
It looks to me like you're still coming to grips with all human relationships being transactional.
It's not a condemnation of anyone to acknowledge this reality. My intent is just to tell men to be aware of it so that they don't get taken advantage of. We, as a sex, tend to be too generous for our own good.
@lurkerhasarisen the incident I recall your telling was a woman grabbing onto you in a swimming pool, and your having to pry yourself free and get away.
Were there more?
I never thought I'd be grateful to be taking stool softeners
Looks like a certain public service announcement really helped you out!
but, after that experience, I'd rather shoot soft-serve every day for the rest of my life than ever be physically unable to go again.
OK, kidding around aside, I have the opposite problem: IBS as chronic diarrhea. I have the highest disability rating for it without surgery that the VA offers, and I'm on two different prescriptions for it. Going by when I first started experiencing symptoms, it's because of toxic exposures to the smoke from burn pits in all 3 tours in Iraq, but especially the third one. (This exposure has caused other health issues too.)
Actual conversation between my provider and me when she was discussing one of the medicines with me:
Her: it might make you constipated.
Me: I'd love to know what that's like!
For those curious, the medicine helps a lot but it has not constipated me.
Read MoreI can’t because the admins finally banned me. I’m surprised it didn’t happen years ago.
I was mainly posting political stuff, and honestly, that’s kind of a fool’s errand / time sink, anyway.
