@Mate1212

Walking away is your biggest power as a man. I've walked away in the past a couple of times. It always hurted even though it was the right thing to do.

Maybe it took longer than it could have. But I always did. Whether it was disrespect from here side, or other opinions of the future together. I've always walked away before getting cheated on.

But It always hurt. It scratched on the "psychological health". Higher bpm when I thought I'm about to end it or I couldn't eat days before ending it.

Older brothers, will this ever stop? Will I ever be able to walk away from a LTR without going through bad / negative emotions?

Some didn't hurt, and some took really long. Where everything was how I wanted it, but she had other plans for the future ( hedonist treadmill / career and I wanted the American dream (stay at home mom)).

Telling yourself that you're strong, when you express sentiments to the contrary isn't a good look. Acknowledging your weakness, as frustrating as it might be, is a necessary step on the journey to realizing the strength you seek to develop in yourself. Own your faults and failings. It's the only way to ensure they can never be used against you. It isn't weakness to process ones feelings of disappointment after a failure, refusing to learn from them is. Learn from the lessons gained through past failures you've endured so that you don't repeat them and can become the man you imagine you might one day become.

Sexual liberation is war. You're a soldier born into a war your parents didn't want you trained or equipped to fight. Now you must hurdle the gatekeepers who obscure this truth from sight.

@HighBodyCountVirgin

Resources for (mainly indirect) day game? Thoughts on the method?

I want to get into perfecting my day game and am looking for more content and resources that could help. I skimmed through Roosh's day bang (I plan to finish it later), and read some posts from TRP archive. I don't like mainstream normie pickup approaches to day game, because they all focus on direct game, i.e. going straight up to a woman and complimenting her, its more likely to fail, especially in day game.

I like the way Roosh did it, basically striking up a regular conversation with a woman, and throwing out baits to see if she bites, like making a statement about a topic and seeing if she follows up on it. If she takes the most of your baits then you know she's interested and you can tell her you enjoy talking to her and would like to get coffee sometime, then exchange numbers or social media.

Thoughts? And are there other resources you would recommend?

Nothing I haven't suggested already. I'm still surprised Roosh actually took my advice in seeking out to build for himself a group of solid trustworthy male friends. That the journey would lead someone with a Turkish-Iranian background to join the Christian faith I still can't say was entirely unsurprising, as his writing gave off a profound sense of defeat and mental exhaustion.

Keep developing your communication skills, consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.

@moneymakingmitch

My ego got hurt at a home party, trying to better myself

I‘ve been invited to this chicks home party for halloween; she wanted to see me and was implying she was dressed up as a sexy vampire and I can be her edward cullen. I got there and I was having fun with my friends, talking to everyone. I was trying to initiate and isloate the given chick (we matched on hinge) and tried to kiss her. She told me she feels like I‘m mad at her and it would be better to see us in that kind of setting for a different time. In my head I knew this is not going to work and I‘d never meet her again. She then proceeded to fuck another guy at the home party after talking to me.

Rationally, I have no idea why I‘m upset. I literally don‘t know her but maybe my expectations that I thought I‘m gonna see her and potentially fuck her made me hurt my ego. I feel like I got cucked for some reason. I literally have lots of women, even made out with her girl friend later in the club and ended up picking another one up I brought home; but I still can‘t shake the feeling off that I got a bit „embarrassed“. I am usually very stoic and these things would never faze me, but it was so in my face that I kinda got pissed off.

Curious about some insight

Consider investing into a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". Doc Love, who until his passing was also known as Tom Hodges, wrote a weekly advice column that's archive is mirrored on several mens focused sites and a podcast. His media is a bit pricey, but it's a solid foundation a guy can branch out from in RP aware circles. I'd suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. To save yourself a search, give this scribed link a gander to find out if his #book is something you'd like to add to your library. It should also be available on libgen.