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I matched with this girl (24y/o, HB7) online. The conversation went fairly normally. An initial opener, some flirting and then an offer for drinks. In all, around 5 messages before I got her number.
Over the next few days we exchanged a few messages, she was very enthusiastic in her messages, before she stopped responding. I'd chalked this one up to be a ghost/flake and didn't think too much more of it.
The morning of the date, I received a message from her. She apologises for missing my messages and asks if we're still on for drinks that evening. I say we are (I hadn't made any other plans at such short notice). I agree to meet her at the train station in the evening.
As I leave work, she starts messaging again. She becomes very self conscious. She's worried/nervous about meeting me. She says she's worried that I'll find her immature. She doesn't know what to wear etc. I settle her down.
We meet at the train station, the meet goes well. After a hug she seems a bit disorientated "where are we going?". I tell her where we're going and get her to walk with me. As we're walking to the bar, you can tell she is nervous. She keeps verbalising how nervous she is, she doesn't do this very often (lol), doesn't usually date older guys - blah, blah, blah.
We get to the bar, we walk in and I buy her a drink. I guide her to a table and we sit down. Now, she is very nervous. She's fidgeting, she's touching her hair, she's laughing and she is excessively talking. She's struggling to maintain eye contact.
We start talking and having some good conversation. Nothing particularly flirty, just general conversation but over 10 - 15 minutes she starts to ease up and relax.
She then starts showing me her tattoos (unprompted), she invites me to touch her arms, her back, her legs and her inner thighs. She asks to see my tattoos and start to touch me as well.
At this point I wanted to go for a smoke, so we go and sit outside. We're sat directly opposite each other over the table. By now she is really starting to open up. The conversation is flowing, she's laughing, she's giggling, she's touching. Conversation becomes much more flirty. I'm seeing a lot of IoIs.
After about half an hour of sitting there talking, touching and flirting - she says she needs to use the restroom. She gets up and asks where it is. After a bit of joking and light "punch" from her, she goes off to the restroom.
A few minutes later she returns. She comes back to the table and asks if I'd like to go to another bar. "How about _____?" I suggest. She agrees. But I need to use the restroom first.
I go off to use the restroom. When I come back to the table, she is gone.
I leave the bar, and as I get out the front she is standing there.
She comes up to me and tells me that she is going to leave. "Hey, sorry. I'm going to leave. I just feel like we're quite different people. The conversation feels really forced, and sometimes you just know if it's not right for you. I called my friend and I'm going to leave. sorry. I hope that's okay?"
I said sure. Gave her a hug and walked off.
Read MorePublic service message: If you enjoy the content, please consider posting this link to the Reddit version of WAATGM since I cannot. It drives more traffic to this site, such as myself, and that's how the content creation happens. Please do your part: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RlC5DEp2EOQ
@Typo-MAGAshiv Please reflair what is appropriate. What's interesting about this one is she assumes the man has spent thousands on Professionals? This may warrant somehow a distinctive flair? Perhaps this is just her opinion of men in general?
Late last night, after some 9 hours of deliberations, the jury in the persecution of Shiloh Hendrix delivered their verdict. Hendrix had been charged with two misdemeanor counts of disorderly conduct for her use of the magic “N-word,” first towards a young black boy who stole from her purse, and then towards a Somalian migrant accused sex offender who continuously hounded her while recording, taunting Hendrix into using the magic N-word towards him, as well.
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Pretty good analysis.
Hahaha. Fat girl #1 getting exactly what she put's out. Her politics: Psycho, Her "deal-breakers": Unrealistic for her status. I don't feel bad at all for women who want a man that is the complete opposite of themselves. There is no "accept me as I am" , the only one who will take you as you are is the Lord and he demands improvement from you going forward. In her case, God will be taking and then hiring the soul of crane operator the same day she dies.
Wow, this chick just makes me… sad. I feel sorry for her. I’m also aware she has made her choices and is the way she is because she wants to be.
I’m sad because she, like many people in the world, including some men on here, hold a certain misunderstanding about the world.
The misunderstanding is this: if you cannot or will not comply with the “rules” of what is desired, of what people want, you will always have a harder time finding love/sex/marriage.
In women, fat is a unattractive, woke is a unattractive, 30+ years old is a unattractive.
In men, short is a unattractive, poor is a unattractive, and awkward/autistic is an unattractive.
It does not matter how “honest” or “transparent” you are about this. Something that is unattractive is unattractive. Asking the world to look past this is asking for a lot from many people.
Either truly accept your flaws (including accepting poorer outcomes), or work to change your flaws. These are the only options, lest you become a bitter and hateful of the world. The world which did not bend, according to your own preference.
Read MoreThat documentaries one..... I just want to write to her and say "Me too! I just wanna snuggle up and watch a documentary together! Just chilling out, relaxed, making out together a little on a Sunday night, just me and my slim girlfriend".
didn't chase, I didn't give compliments. It makes me hate women how hypergamous they are that's the only reason I can justify their blocking me
You're completely outcome dependent. It doesn't matter if you dont chase and say nice things sometimes, that isn't where the bar is for doing things "right."
finding it hard to maintain consistency in the good habits like: gym, studying,watching old noirs. There are certain elements I'd attribute to my chronic downfall -Watching porn and masturbating -Comparing myself on social media -Eating junk Everytime I get blocked by a girl
How are you going to make any difference in your life at all, especially with women, if you won't work on these bad habits? Are you going to cry, masturbate, cry, text a stranger on facebook, and stuff your fat ass face every night?
Don't you see how these habits might effect the energy you put into dating? What's the smart move, women first - or bad habits first?
It makes me hate women how hypergamous they are
SIDEBAR. Hypergamy or not, they're not blocking you because of your midget porn addiction.
posting 2-3 times a week on socials to get some connections there
Serious question, are you autistic? Are you able to speak to people face to face normally?
I am short I am skinny and I have $0 to my name.
Are you homeless? Do you sleep in a bed at night? Do you get to eat food and drink water?
Shelter, food, water. That's all a man needs to live. Suffering from lacking what you desire is a choice. You can choose to be grateful. Write in a journal every day about being grateful.
I went to the gym like 2-3 times and fapped maybe 30-50 times
Dude, this is where I fucking envy you. I'm on a caloric cut trying to get shredded as possible, I'm at the point where I'm downing ephedrine twice a day just to curb hunger all together. The final push. I've been in the gym 3 or 4 times but I've fapped exactly ONCE. Granted, I've gotten laid twice the last week but my dick is being conservative as fuck with it's availability. I literally have to get penciled in, this low energy low libido shit sucks. But hey, difference is - my issues stem from progress. You can get these problems, too, if you make a plan and get off the ride you're on. Which is probably an early death, to be honest.
Should I go ghost on social media, how do i not care about being blocked
There's no such thing as social media game without real life game. You need to be living outside and meeting people and doing shit in order to have a worthwhile social media presence.
If youre depending on social media to be your vehicle of sex success, what are you going to show on there that will hook women? How are you going to collect a wealth of experience with women without meeting them in person? Is social media going to get you ripped, strong, and muscular? Are you banking on social media to raise your SMV? How do you intend on doing that?
You cant answer those questions without creating something outside of social media. Fuck social media, it's all bots anyway.
Edit: if this doesnt give you hope, nothing will, but I work as a bouncer every Friday and Saturday and last night I saw a skinny short asian kid, dorky looking seriously, getting happily frisky with 2 cute women. They were eating him up! He grabbed them both by the hands and ran off with them - vanished, probably had the single greatest moment of his life last night. There's a piece of the pie for everyone who can get after it.
Read MoreBeing good with women doesn't mean being The One Don Julio.
Not a bad idea to keep ears open to advice in the wild but take everything with a grain of salt unless proven effective.
I would do the complete opposite. Flirt, Kino, Close and if she doesn't let you in on the first date, but does on the second date, that's respectable.
Keep in mind that what she doesnt do on the date she may do with another right after it. There is no reason not to go for the lay.
Miss, maybe you should lean into your talents? There are lots of things you could do.
You could try out livestock-lifting equipment, for instance. Perhaps a structural engineer would want to see how much weight a newly-built bridge could bear when you move across it on a flatbed truck? A gastric bypass clinic might need a model for the 'before' picture. You could demolish concrete structures by rolling downhill into them while wearing a helmet. Or you could calibrate a seismograph on the other side of the world by jogging. There are pie-eating contests, pudding-eating contests, omelet-eating contests, diabetes medication contests, taking the biggest shit contests... do I need to come-up with all the ideas around here?
