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47m ago Ask TRP Forum
Oneitis massacring me
Hello guys, I hope you are pretty fine.
I’m currently in an LTR. In the past, I’ve had two strong oneitis experiences. Even though I’ve read the sidebar, worked on myself, built a stable career with decent income, improved my SMV, and I’m in good shape (not jacked, but fit), I still can’t fully overcome this oneitis feeling.
The problem appears only when the relationship deepens and exclusivity is established. That’s when my oneitis and jealousy kicks in hard (even if i know i’m not gonna marry her…).
The phone is the main trigger. I start wondering what she’s doing, why she hasn’t replied yet, or why she suddenly disappears. I try my best to keep frame, not ask questions, not show neediness , but internally, it messes me up. On the outside, I keep my integrity; inside, it’s chaos.
My cold approach is shitty due to approach anxiety and i aknowledge that i need to work on it also I don’t like spinning plates. It drains me mentally, takes time, and requires constant strategizing. I prefer LTRs. With my current LTR, everything is objectively good, yet I can’t fully trust her , and I don’t even know why. The time gap between her responses creates anxiety, i try to go lifting to overcome this. You can call me a beta if you want, but this issue only arises once exclusivity is on the table.
I unfriended her on snapchat which i keep for family only a few minutes after accepting her, and she definitely received the notification. I know she probably thinks something is off (maybe even that I’m cheating after that unfriending even if she didn’t say anything) , i’ve done that just to not check her snapscore constantly ( yes low fucking self control). I also see Snapchat as a free validation tool: selfies, constant exchanges, expectations to reply. I prefer keeping some mystery.
My questions are: • How do I treat the root cause of this problem? This isn’t the first time it’s happened to me. • I acknowledge that I have oneitis to this 7 months LTR, even though I’m behaving correctly on the surface. • Should I re-accept her on Snapchat to stop her hamster and work on controlling myself?
Thanks a lot.
Read More58m ago Ask TRP Forum
Is it weird/cringe to target a type? And, is it stupid?
The reason i ask is becausa i want to bang some asians, as objectifying as it sounds, i just want to. And, given their usual preferences and my fenotype, i"m usually not their type.
I wonder if this a damaged way of going forward and increases the odds of pedestalizing
I also was watching "Industry" show and that Marisa Abela has a body...... So, you see, is this "simping" bad?
@MentORPHEUS Let’s be fair, some of the pages mentioning Trump were deleted before the poor rascals could get a good look at them.
Of course, they don’t wonder why. That’s an issue, I suppose.
In lesser discussed TRP, there's the concept of "she will circle back".
Over the past few months, I've experienced that.
Since October, I have let my plates fall off. This was a combination of practicality (went travelling in Asia) and necessity - lost my job, no money. I cant justify spending money at the bar with no job.
I went from 5 plates to 0. With no intention of onboarding anymore. The cards may fall wherever they fell.
In three cases, they have circled back.
Hot Brazilian MILF. She circled back first. After blocking me because she had "feelings for me". She messaged me out of the blue and wanted to get back together. We fucked for a few more weeks until she again decided that she "had feelings for me".
Ultra hot middle eastern girl messaged me out of the blue after xmas. She invited me over to fuck and we did. After begging me to stay the next day and going to a museum together, she then decided she doesn't want to know me anymore. I suspect she will again return.
The first girl after my breakup. After 7 months of no contact messages me asking "how are you". Quickly turns into lets meet up and fuck, which we did. Back as plate.
Read MoreNo. Having a preference isn't simping or bad. It just means you need to put in the work to get what you want.
Now go fourth and lift and start talking to all the hot Asian girls you see in your journey. Go out and slay my brother!
Priceless.
"I am lazy and won't carry my responsibilities. Take me and my brats on, it will be worth it"
Why? All I know about you is that you are lazy and shirk responsibility. These are not things that suggest value. What you are looking for is a cuck. The liberal state is a cuck or a man who takes you on is a cuck. You have had a blissful sheltered life and it is about to be filled with increasing disappointment as cucks get poorer quality while you get more demanding.
