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this was my first experience with a girl that was exactly my type,
She ticks lots of idealized boxes you have inside your mind.
But... BUT... she's proven herself as NOT your type, by one of the most important measures of all: the level of attraction and commitment she feels for YOU!
Long and hard experience, and copious sharing of notes, shows that virtually nothing you do will turn this situation around to what you hope for. Further, that TRYING anyway, ends up working against you by many measures, from opportunity cost, to pride and self esteem, to the woman sometimes willfully exploiting your attraction with zero intention of delivering anything you actually want, aside from minimum scraps of attention to keep you on the hook.
Accept that you shot your shot, it didn't develop how you hoped and never will, and relegate this woman to the scrap heap of your attraction/dating history.
This makes you fully mentally and physically available to pursue other prospects, and land a woman who DOES act the part of holding mutual attraction with you.
Read MoreThey get attached to emotion, fickly. It's easy to sudden evaporate her interest.
Does sex equal a more intense attachment - of course.. but are the fan girls of top chart celebs fucking those guys?
My real honest opinion is, don't worry about it. You can be fuckin a girl for a while, think she loves you or sees you as special, just to find out she's blowing her botox technician.
Edit/addendum:
Yes, of course men and women have some drives and instincts that are different from each other, such as men being willing to fuck almost anything, and women being hypergamous. Didn't phrase the original one very well, but the point still stands.
@Kloi The average dude says he likes bitchy entitled women with short hair, if he thinks it'll get him a chance. Most guys don't have so much a preference as they do have a justification for whomever will give them attention.
She's 39 with no kids. In other words, 20 years on the cock carousel and becoming the man she always wanted.
Where have all the good women gone?
3h ago Ask TRP Forum
Do women really only get attached by fucking?
Update post. So this girl that was excited about me apparently lost interest last weekend, her energy completely shifted from excited to talk to me, initiating conversations, etc to suddenly being dry. I tried to only text for logistics for the most part, i asked her out again which she wasn't available for.
Then she ghosted me the entire weekend, so i double texted (ik it's a mistake but I thought her interest in me was high enough). Then I think i fucked up further by acting a bit needy and telling her "i really want to see her again i felt a lot of chemsitry and ik you do things spontaneously so let me know whatever" to leave the ball in her court, to which she replied with some emotional bullshit "ohh i was just thinking about you too because im at X spot picking up food for my little brother" (the spot we went to that night). I know the answer is go fuck other women but wtf, this was my first experience with a girl that was exactly my type, super hot and amazing personality. I can't believe I lost her that easily. Do women really move on this easily? I mean yeah she's probably fucking with some other guys now and I'm not her top option anymore but wtf. I can't believe i'm that replaceable. We had a great night, she went from begging me to text her back and calling me daddy to being left on delivered for days now. WTF.
I know Im supposed to have abundance mindset too but i don't want to give up on this girl that easily. I'm talking to other girls on the apps but i'm gonna keep pinging her every couple of weeks cause i want her. I don't think she's gonna come back around if I leave it alone so that's my strat going forward.
Read MoreI would wager your average man would say they enjoy them/find them attractive.
That's been my experience IRL anyways.
The thing about coworkers is that you're doing an activity with a person, and a lot. They see the sides of you that some random bar chick doesn't.
If you want to try something new, find a hobby or play billards. Something that requires getting to know the group. There's no risk of being fired, just don't go spilling about who you fuck - being thought a player vs being known as one is different.
