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Which one of you guys wants to talk to a REAL woman instead of this red pill crap?
Which one of you fags made this shirt?
He mentioned to me that on the first date it’s best to flirt and show intent but intentionally do not go for a kiss or try to escalate into sex. The reason being is to show how good of a guy you are, and then on the second date escalate it all the way to sex.
If you have good SMV, not only can you fuck on the first date, the girl will do the leg work for you.
Is this good advice or is he talking out of his ass?
His premise, is bullshit.
There are times not to fuck on the first date. But not fucking on the first date doesn't help you out fucking on the second. In my experience it hinders it.
I'm sorry this just sounds like absolute cope
If you two want to fuck then fuck
Women will crawl over glass to have a guy they want
The only reason you shouldn't try is because you don't feel like it
Women aren't "serious" based on not fucking on the first date they are "serious" by their ability to keep men they fuck
I was going to say your coworker is giving good advice, until…
The reason being is to show how good of a guy you are
Then I knew your coworker was cooked and probably beta. Yes, you don’t want to give off psycho serial rapist killer vibes on date 1. But girls don’t fuck “good guys”, that’s literally a premise of this entire forum and red pill praxeology.
That being said, it can make sense not to escalate all the way on date 1. If there’s sexual tension, you can exploit it and leave it unfinished, unresolved. That can build up greater desire in the woman if done right, as they often expect you to escalate up up up.
But this strategy runs the risk of her “just not feeling” the next time you meet. And it’s a poor crutch for being afraid to escalate too. And again, only works if there is some kind of tension between you, not if there are 0 sparks.
Read More40 years is pretty good
Who knows what could have been achieved with more TRP
It's still a really good run that you did this well regardless
