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That documentaries one..... I just want to write to her and say "Me too! I just wanna snuggle up and watch a documentary together! Just chilling out, relaxed, making out together a little on a Sunday night, just me and my slim girlfriend".
Wow, this chick just makes me… sad. I feel sorry for her. I’m also aware she has made her choices and is the way she is because she wants to be.
I’m sad because she, like many people in the world, including some men on here, hold a certain misunderstanding about the world.
The misunderstanding is this: if you cannot or will not comply with the “rules” of what is desired, of what people want, you will always have a harder time finding love/sex/marriage.
In women, fat is a unattractive, woke is a unattractive, 30+ years old is a unattractive.
In men, short is a unattractive, poor is a unattractive, and awkward/autistic is an unattractive.
It does not matter how “honest” or “transparent” you are about this. Something that is unattractive is unattractive. Asking the world to look past this is asking for a lot from many people.
Either truly accept your flaws (including accepting poorer outcomes), or work to change your flaws. These are the only options, lest you become a bitter and hateful of the world. The world which did not bend, according to your own preference.
Read MoreOne for the Careful who you knock up files. Woman calls 911 from the parking lot of her 2yo son's daycare well after closing time. She's absolutely freaking out that her child is missing. A massive effort involving daycare workers, family members, the child's father, and neighbors ensues. Long story short, officers and someone with a key make entry to her apartment, and find the already picked up child unharmed but crying, and incidentally, numerous empty hard liquor bottles. Officers then perform field sobriety tests and find her at nearly 3x the legal limit. She gets arrested, turns her aggression on the cops, then fights her way from Mom picking her up at the station, to a night in jail and a few additional felony charges. CPS ends up releasing the child to his Father that evening. Most Red Pilled detail to come out of this: her ex set it up so the only way she could contact him, was via the text message field of a Venmo payment to him. Imagine how much bullshit that cut down on!
m.youtube.com/watch?v=v1ZO2KYXiNs
Read MoreMiss, maybe you should lean into your talents? There are lots of things you could do.
You could try out livestock-lifting equipment, for instance. Perhaps a structural engineer would want to see how much weight a newly-built bridge could bear when you move across it on a flatbed truck? You could demolish concrete structures by rolling downhill into them while wearing a helmet. Or you could calibrate a seismograph on the other side of the world by falling down. There are pie-eating contests, pudding-eating contests, omelet-eating contests, diabetes medication contests, taking the biggest shit contests... do I need to come-up with all the ideas around here?
Regarding the first video posted, she goes on and on about being upfront about her physique and her dealbreakers. As if her candor in her profile is the only thing that matters.
Lady, you can be a "10" on paper, but still have an off-putting personality. If every guy you've matched with and talked to for the last 13 years has said, "Nope. I'm out." the issue is probably your personality.
Are you loud and obnoxious? Are you unkind to service personnel? Are you too emotional? Do you complain too much? Do you rant about social injustices? Do you swear a lot in public?
These are turnoffs. Start there.
@adam-l The narrative at the moment is "burnt out and crazy". Not sure I've noticed the change, but I've not had a new girl in a while either.
"Burnt out and crazy" sucks for them. It sucks harder for men.
Thanks! It's one of my favorite templates
"I'm open, honest, and upfront with everybody..."
Except, with YOURSELF. You think that the problem is only that you are fat. I mean, you are, but much more saliently, you act loud, brash, obnoxious, insistent, and pushy. I'm quite surprised you hooked a prospect for 2 whole weeks, because I got completely exhausted of listening to you before that couple of minutes long video was finished.
I'm saying this as someone who has dated some pretty big girls in my time.
Fat is not a preference, fat is a consolation prize, a scraping of the fat bottom of the barrel. She needs to understand that.
"Never had a relationship" is a huge red flag. Not "One boyfriend who I dated loyally for ten years". But "Not one relationship".
So she's fat and has been endlessly pumped and dumped.
Dropping her after two weeks after initial interest: either they found better, or they got bored of the conversation to nowhere, or she made dumb demands that were not in keeping with the value offered (which is minimal).
And she cannot understand why this isn't working for her.
