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When she says "but we're NOT having sex tonight"
I need to post in there again some time
So theres no real way of guaranteeing they wont cheat?
Nothing in life is ever guaranteed.
The best you can do is make your odds as favorable as possible.
I guess ideally you would want to be both “alpha” and “beta” then.
Beta/comfort must be earned by the woman. If you give too much too soon, you'll put her off.
If you consistently withhold it over time, she'll leave.
How are you actually meant to form any kind of connection with someone if thats the case?
You can still form connections. Just be ready for connections to end.
Have you read the sidebar material at the Married Red Pill subreddit?
I mainly recommend Athol Kay's book for the stuff you're asking. It's foundational for MRP, and I recommend guys who never plan to get married read it as well.
@Saltycroc several reasons, mostly simple:
1) Briffault's Law always applies. If the woman decides she's no longer benefiting, the relationship ends.
2) women make decisions based off of instinct and emotion. Don't expect their decisions to make any logical sense to an outside observer who is missing information (such as where she is in her monthly cycle).
3) it's frequently not about which man is objectively best, but rather the one she perceives (read feeeeeels) is best. This is why women's parents picked their husbands for millennia across all cultures; young women are terrible pickers. A man you perceive as "alpha" might be a spineless wimp when dealing with his woman behind closed doors. Famous example: Will Smith with his wife.
4) there's no such thing as an "alpha male". Alpha and beta are better understood as traits and behaviors that all men possess and display to varying degrees, with "alpha" being arousal and "beta" being comfort. This ties back to Briffault's Law and what the woman wants in that moment.
5) women are almost always seeking upgrades, especially if not currently satisfied for whatever (usually frivolous) reason.
6) some (many) women are just sluts, plain and simple.
Read MoreROFL. I gotta tell you, this is one of the only video clips posted here that I actually enjoyed! She was actually pretty funny. 1960'a fridges with the lazy Susans, and back-fat Betty had me rolling :)
So I'll give her that. But since this WAATGM, I have to point something out. Not about her being fat.
By her own admission, she has no interest in a future with this guy. It's a pure hookup situation. Meanwhile, she has several age-appropriate men she's talking to, that have potential, that she's not having sex with. Normally we'd chalk this up to the young guy is an alpha chad and the older guys are Billy beta. But that's not the case. She says that this guy is shorter and not as good looking as the older guys, who are also more "established".
This is a common thing among women: guys that they know aren't going to last, they'll readily hook up with, but guys with potential, they'll vet hard for months even if they're more desirable. I can't tell you how many times I've heard women say "I'm going to go slow with this one because he might be real." And I'm thinking "you're literally about to some loser home that you found at last call at the bar tonight, but the guy who's hotter, treats you better, and that you might actually have a real future with, you're going to make him wait, because.... Reasons?"
It's another way women are their own worst enemies. Logic would dictate that if you find a guy that, after a few dates at most, you think is genuine, you'd start locking him down by throwing sex his way anytime he wants. But in their hamster-addled minds, it's the reverse: the guy you know is terrible for you, you find it easier to have a one night stand with, and the guy with potential, you want to make him wait. And usually, after making him wait, he gets tired and moves on (and eventually transforms into a guy who's not a good long-term prospect, since that's what gets rewarded) and you're left with a relationship you messed up, precisely thing you said you wanted to avoid.
Read MoreDon't worry. You didn't shoot yourself in the foot because you have no feet to begin with.
Let me see. You post a single short vid of a woman sitting next to you and both of you playing with your dogs. And you think somehow everyone is going to assume you two are madly in love with each other and going to run away and live happily ever after?
It's like dudes who go to the gym once, do a single set of bench pressing twenty lbs, and then ask if they're going to get stretch marks from the muscles growing too fast.
Trust me, no one thinks you're fucking. That said, the fact that a girl found you tolerable enough to sit in your vicinity for five minutes is not a bad thing and, based on the level of concern you're expressing, probably a step up on the social proof ladder than anything else in your Instagram feed.
Stop worrying about women getting turned off because you're suddenly a world class player. Focus on actually getting a woman or two to date you and then you can start worrying about how it might affect your reputation (and even then it's almost purely a positive).
Read MoreI know we're all a bunch of hard-asses on here, but if this doesn't move you then you're a block of ice:
Why do women cheat on alpha males?
If anyone could point me to an article or some kind of reading material on this topic that would be appreciated.
