ROFL. I gotta tell you, this is one of the only video clips posted here that I actually enjoyed! She was actually pretty funny. 1960'a fridges with the lazy Susans, and back-fat Betty had me rolling :)

So I'll give her that. But since this WAATGM, I have to point something out. Not about her being fat.

By her own admission, she has no interest in a future with this guy. It's a pure hookup situation. Meanwhile, she has several age-appropriate men she's talking to, that have potential, that she's not having sex with. Normally we'd chalk this up to the young guy is an alpha chad and the older guys are Billy beta. But that's not the case. She says that this guy is shorter and not as good looking as the older guys, who are also more "established".

This is a common thing among women: guys that they know aren't going to last, they'll readily hook up with, but guys with potential, they'll vet hard for months even if they're more desirable. I can't tell you how many times I've heard women say "I'm going to go slow with this one because he might be real." And I'm thinking "you're literally about to some loser home that you found at last call at the bar tonight, but the guy who's hotter, treats you better, and that you might actually have a real future with, you're going to make him wait, because.... Reasons?"

It's another way women are their own worst enemies. Logic would dictate that if you find a guy that, after a few dates at most, you think is genuine, you'd start locking him down by throwing sex his way anytime he wants. But in their hamster-addled minds, it's the reverse: the guy you know is terrible for you, you find it easier to have a one night stand with, and the guy with potential, you want to make him wait. And usually, after making him wait, he gets tired and moves on (and eventually transforms into a guy who's not a good long-term prospect, since that's what gets rewarded) and you're left with a relationship you messed up, precisely thing you said you wanted to avoid.

Don't worry. You didn't shoot yourself in the foot because you have no feet to begin with.

Let me see. You post a single short vid of a woman sitting next to you and both of you playing with your dogs. And you think somehow everyone is going to assume you two are madly in love with each other and going to run away and live happily ever after?

It's like dudes who go to the gym once, do a single set of bench pressing twenty lbs, and then ask if they're going to get stretch marks from the muscles growing too fast.

Trust me, no one thinks you're fucking. That said, the fact that a girl found you tolerable enough to sit in your vicinity for five minutes is not a bad thing and, based on the level of concern you're expressing, probably a step up on the social proof ladder than anything else in your Instagram feed.

Stop worrying about women getting turned off because you're suddenly a world class player. Focus on actually getting a woman or two to date you and then you can start worrying about how it might affect your reputation (and even then it's almost purely a positive).