I'll give her props is she's genuinely looking only for serious relationships at 21. But she's doing it on dating apps. Assuming she's still in college there are tons of guys IRL literally walking past her dorm room every day that she could meet. Heck, hang out in the engineering building in a cute outfit and walk out with a handful of potential guys who would be thanking their lucky stars to get a girlfriend, and who, in a couple of years, will probably be making six figures and would be happy to start a life with you.

But... Those dudes are short. And don't have six packs... So she's forced -- forced, I tell you! -- to go on dating apps instead and swipe on hawt dudes who have 5 other girls lined up that week. Why oh why is this plan of hers not working???

One note: she says with all the guys they agreed they wanted a serious relationship. I doubt it. That's what she convinced herself they meant, because she wanted to continue dating them. Women decide who tingles their vagina, then create whatever story in their mind that they need to reconcile this man with the image of who she thinks she ought to be dating. The easiest person for a woman to delude is herself. I've seen it. Years ago my housemate at the time was a player. And to a woman there were all convinced he wanted a "serious relationship". Even the ones that literally knew he was seeing other women at that very same time. And the truth is he never told them a lie. It was all omitting just enough to create enough ambiguity that the woman would trick herself into believing what she wanted, and then never ask the question again (at least for a few months / years, by which time he was happy to let them go anyway).

And finally, I have to chuckle at the dude who explained he had to cut it off for his mental health. That's the most original "it's not you, it's me" variation I've heard in years. Not only does it validate her (she's worthy of commitment), it validates him (he's getting attached) while weaponizing therapy-speak to ensure that the knifing he delivers can't be used to call him an asshole. Protecting your mental health? Why, this guy should be commended for being so into wellbeing and mindfulness! He couldn't have landed that exit better if he told her his emotional support gerbil was going off too many times and that was a sign that he needed to heal his traumas more before getting into a relationship this beautiful.