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I can be that guy too. My youth and my time in the military have given me experiences that not everyone else has. Life experience has also taught me to take the future seriously.
So many people around me sweat the small shit and ignore the long term. It is like the American way to just fuck off and worry about retirement when you get there.
So there are several important things I take VERY seriously.
The people around me do not give a fuck about me or my worries. If I am to operate in the culture around me, I have to learn the language (literally and metaphorically). And putting on a happy face when I don't want to is a part of being successful in these times.
So think of your demeanor as being a facet of competency (competency is knowledge, skills, and attitudes). You can have all the knowledge and skill in the world, but if your mindset is not right you are incompetent (socially) - by definition.
So practice relaxing, joking, etc. ie Fake it till you make it.
Do it like your life depends on it, because is sorta does.Read More
What are some fun easy ways to be less serious and more playful, fun, joyful, specifically with girls that are interested in you. Even with other guys though, too.
It’s like I’ve just come out of monk mode and getting back in the scene. Interest is heavy but it’s like I’m a little too stoic, and I can’t get past this hump in the mind. When the opportunity is there in the moment I’m usually good about it and more loose. But even still, it’s like something, probably some kind of fear, is holding me back.