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I'm going to second this.
I have plates I've known for ten plus years that to this day, still hit me up when their LTRs fails. Most of them always ask when they come back, why don't things ever work out between us? then answer themselves you're not much of a relationship guy are you.
@Bozza if you shred Van Halen everytime a date sucks you’ll be pretty good streamable.com/q9ard9
@Bozza Plate simply means nonexclusive/noncommittal. Treating them like shit, that's your choice out of infinite options. Reflects at least as much on you and your character as on they and theirs.
Perhaps you'd find both better internal satisfaction, and better performance on their part, if you were to rethink and change up your plate strategy from the ground up.
Personally, I found good treatment, and plausible deniability rather than outright deception about their LTR prospects, worked mutually well for both parties through my plate spinning days.
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welp. just got off another first date. some things you cant hold your tongue on..
this chick was 23, absolutely massive tits, ill add... i went into it saying "no touchy topics, just be cool and non chalant"
half way thru she starts talking about how she wants a traditional guy, then later in convo tells me she lives with her parents, followed by "i could never date a guy that lives with his parents".
I said... seems like a double standard but whatever... you want a traditional guy, so youre a virgin right? "No sex shouldnt even matter"...uhh okay. I said what qualities do you bring for this optimal guy you speak of? "he gets me". What???? I said "Oh okay, outside of your looks what do you think makes you a good partner?" she says "I am just family oriented and want kids". Thats it. That was her answer
at this point i knew there were no long term compatibilities so i said screw it, I asked "Okay so these attributes you list in your ideal guy are generally traits all women want. Why do you think he would hypothetically pick you over all of these other options?" (keep in mind she said she doesnt sleep with someone until in a relationship) She just says "maybe it isnt realistic but i refuse to settle"..
I shit you not this is almost word for word a conversation i had an hour ago. How delusional are these fuckin women?
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Why is spinning plates so hollow. Why can you treat these girls like absolute shit, like absolute garbage - and they still want to fuck you?
You fuck them, and its just... hollow.
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