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but eliminating it completely will turn you into a monster.
Additionally, like Vermy said, you can't emulate sociopathy or psychopathy completely. Those traits are inborn.
@sandman1998 you know how salt frequently makes food taste better?
Well, too much salt can ruin the dish.
Same with the behaviors.
Dulling your empathic response can make your life easier and make you more attractive to women, but eliminating it completely will turn you into a monster.
"But what about all those women who write love letters to serial killers?!"
Well, some people love extra salty food. Some women like those traits taken too far. Stay away from them.
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@Snefsky forums.red frequently makes you log in separately from trp.red, even though it's the same username and password. It didn't use to do that, but one of the recent site updates caused this.
Back to your original question: women are absolutely ruled by their hormones, and hormonal birth control fucks with those hormones. She's probably going to act weird until her body chemistry balances back out.
You've never seen a woman right before or during her period start crying for no reason? This is probably similar.
Hell, it just hit me. Most hormonal birth control works by fooling the woman's body into thinking it's pregnant. If she suddenly stopped, she might have the hormonal root of post-partum depression without ever having given birth.
It'll probably pass. Not sure how long. When my wife got off the pill back when we got married, I don't recall her doing that. Then again, that was almost 20 years ago.
Read More@Vermillion-Rx sorry, been outta the loop since the reddit purge, I’ll have to try on desktop. I couldn’t post on there on mobile or didn’t now how, so I posted here
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LTR initiated sex, then started crying in the middle of it the last 2 times. Never happened before over the last 2 years. She said it was because she had her birth control implant removed. I know that shit messes up their hormones but is that a typical response?
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You're problem is thinking you can fake being a sociopath
That's where your theory falls apart
I've been wondering about one thing since I started reading trp and rollo's books. I'm sorry if I'm being stupid. I'm a bit lame in understanding intergender dynamics and I'm trying to learn them.
My doubt is, we all know that dark triad personality is very attractive to women. And literally any girl falls and gets attracted to sociopath, selfish, narcissistic personality. Then why shouldn't we become like the dark triad men. I mean, it is more beneficial in general having dark triad personality and also there are so many advantages with getting women. Then why, should we be sane and normal and why not be cultivating the dark triad personality.
Very sorry if this sounds stupid. I'm just curious and want to know.
@carnold03 I agree, had the same thoughts on it. Just went the "That's fair" and got a swift "maybe there are some fast trains' text back (there's not)
Matched with girl. Setup date plan and got her number within 5 texts. On text I try to schedule to meet in my city - she lives 3+ hrs away. She seems really interested and said before that she wants to go and would wanna come here even, I said "I think you should" She replies "hahaha it's just a long trip, and I'm not sure how I can get there and also get back in such a short time" which I totally think is totally valid it being 6+hrs
I'm thinking with abt just replying "That's fair" and see what happens. I thought abt offering to let her sleep at my place, as its the only solution and ideal scenario anyway. but not sure abt that in case we don't vibe on date, and if I'd do that I think wanna call her not text it?
What do u think is the best way to seal this?
Tell her "that's fair" and leave it at that. Your idea to invite her to crash at your place will let her know how interested you are and this early in the game, that tends to kill a chicks interest fast. Besides, most hookup apps I've been shown give users general locations for the other party in relation to their own. She knew it would be three hours one way to your city and still chose to waste your time thinking she was going to meet you.
Do yourself a favor and study the book I suggested to you three years ago. It'll help you to better filter out the females only out to waste a guys time. Try to mix things up with more actual face-to-face conversations with females, even if it's just the cashier at the store.
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